Lemonko 131 Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 akajqiwjuqjajak -we like each other -Won't be able to see her (before September, Uni) :< freaks me out so much AAAAAA :@@@ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Skinny-penis 2,876 Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 follow your heart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 6, 2019 Author Share Posted April 6, 2019 follow your heart What do you mean? I am so confused now :( I am powerless, can't see her for long time... It's been more than a month since I left the town and now I feel worse and worse each day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Skinny-penis 2,876 Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 What do you mean? I am so confused now :( I am powerless, can't see her for long time... It's been more than a month since I left the town and now I feel worse and worse each day have you thought of skypeing at all? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 Call her , skype and if you got time maybe visit ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 6, 2019 Author Share Posted April 6, 2019 Call her , skype and if you got time maybe visit ? we call each other sometimes, but does not feel right ;( I could visit her in next 2 months but I do not feel okay right now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 6, 2019 Author Share Posted April 6, 2019 have you thought of skypeing at all? not really, we just call each other. She video called me for first time like a while ago Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 we call each other sometimes, but does not feel right ;( I could visit her in next 2 months but I do not feel okay right now Try to take care of your health first and rest well , after that plan a visit . Don't put too much pressure on yourself . And try skype it really helps . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 7, 2019 Author Share Posted April 7, 2019 Try to take care of your health first and rest well , after that plan a visit . Don't put too much pressure on yourself . And try skype it really helps . okay I confessed to her, in a super confident way! she seems cautious, keeps asking me If my feelings are temporary, why do I like her and etc ~ I will give her distance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 okay I confessed to her, in a super confident way! she seems cautious, keeps asking me If my feelings are temporary, why do I like her and etc ~ I will give her distance Give her time and don't rush things that might scare her off but at the same time show her that you really care and that you are serious about her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 Give her time and don't rush things that might scare her off but at the same time show her that you really care and that you are serious about her hmm what do you mean that I really care and show that I am serious about her? I confessed yesterday, I plan not to text her for next 2-3 days still, or that's too much? idk =D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 hmm what do you mean that I really care and show that I am serious about her? I confessed yesterday, I plan not to text her for next 2-3 days still, or that's too much? idk =D Lol you confessed yesterday and will give her the silence treatment now , you are mean in my opinion just like you did with your confession be true to her and tell her that you are ready to give her time and space to think about it , this will show her that you care but at the same time give her some distance to figure out her feelings too . But it's up to you, do you really really really like this girl ? if you do, don't be mean to her, the silence treatment after a confession is hard especially without any explanation , it will mean to her that you don't really care about her feeling and at the first " issue " you 'll react this way . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 Lol you confessed yesterday and will give her the silence treatment now , you are mean in my opinion just like you did with your confession be true to her and tell her that you are ready to give her time and space to think about it , this will show her that you care but at the same time give her some distance to figure out her feelings too . But it's up to you, do you really really really like this girl ? if you do, don't be mean to her, the silence treatment after a confession is hard especially without any explanation , it will mean to her that you don't really care about her feeling and at the first " issue " you 'll react this way . nooo, It's just that she is confused now probably, so probably it's better not to bother her no? I told her to take her time yesterday. What should I do? I really like her, I never liked this much before... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 nooo, It's just that she is confused now probably, so probably it's better not to bother her no? I told her to take her time yesterday Ohhh that's great !! I'm rooting for you, hopefully she feels the same way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 Ohhh that's great !! I'm rooting for you, hopefully she feels the same way What should I do now tho xD? when should I start chatting with her again and what should I talk about lol? Should I just keep it fun as I generally do? It was my first time confessing to someone tbh and I am almost 20, I just did not really like anyone to be worth confessing to, EXCEPT HER. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 What should I do now tho xD? when should I start chatting with her again? It was my first time confessing to someone tbh Oh waw that's tricky , start by asking how she is doing and such tomorrow but don't bring the subject up just yet , let her talk about it first , if she does't give you a clear answer by the end of this week , ask her directly for a response Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 Oh waw that's tricky , start by asking how she is doing and such tomorrow but don't bring the subject up just yet , let her talk about it first , if she does't give you a clear answer by the end of this week , ask her directly for a response I'll just crack her up tomorrow, and won't bring up subject at all. but should I ask her tho? I just told her what I feel and told her I do not expect anything from her, so she does not feel pressured. I feel like she can open up herself if she wants to ? but idk lol... to me she seems shy and cautious so... maybe It's better to just ask her but idk lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 I'll just crack her up tomorrow, and won't bring up subject at all. but should I ask her tho? I just told her what I feel and told her I do not expect anything from her, so she does not feel pressured. I feel like she can open up herself if she wants to ? but idk lol... to me she seems shy and cautious so... maybe It's better to just ask her but idk lol I don't know much about the girl but if she is shy , you really did your best ( you confessed and gave her space ) that's the most you can do , now just talk to her normally and let her bring up the subject ( her response ) when she feel that she made up her mind , if it takes too much time then you can try again ( depending on when you think it's too long ) and bring up the subject . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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