Nanalisa 4 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 I dated this white guy and my friends weren't against it but like they would say slick comments saying white people stink and how they don't take showers. I didn't know how to respond because my bf at that time was white. My friend also said, "out of the good looking guys, you chose a white person." Has anyone experienced this? Also, it was also wired that my bf (at that time) would ask why I chose him when I told him I liked him smh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hormones. 886 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Humans are stupid, just keep it moving, the fact it's 2019 and people dating people with different skin pigmentation is still considered taboo are morons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rosalina & luma 13 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 that happened to me a lot with past crushes and stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
à travers ciel 526 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Yea I have. I had to stop seeing this one hair stylist because she was so racist. She would insist that she wasn't but never had anything nice to say about white or Asian people. My own family would insist they were not racist but didn't approve of my now husband who is white. They are so hypocritical. They are colorist as hell and praised me for being so pretty and light skinned only to be mad that I didn't choose an unambiguously black guy as a mate. (Most of the guys I dated were light skinned or non-black. The one dark skinned guy I dated people called ugly. Go figure.) Just wanted to add, I have zero preference for race or skin tone. I love who I love regardless. Tell my family that and I face criticism. That's why I cut them off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B612 22,399 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 there's no such a thing around me, never heard anyone discuss that in real life or care about that so I don't know how it is like to live in a race obsessed environment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Yes, my family is very problack and if i ever brought home a white or Asian guy theyd ask why couldn't i find a black man. I feel like Hispanic would be ok but idk they gossip so much. Even with some of my cousins who have black but very light spouses they will talk extreme shit behind their backs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nootnoot 2,263 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Humans are stupid, just keep it moving, the fact it's 2019 and people dating people with different skin pigmentation is still considered taboo are morons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STORM BLOOM 1,739 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Yikes anyway good thing that I never got to experience any of that and I currently dating someone outside of my race ( We'll gonna have such beautiful and sexy babies ) Love is Love regardless of Color, Gender etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begginforthread 869 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Humans are stupid, just keep it moving, the fact it's 2019 and people dating people with different skin pigmentation is still considered taboo are morons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seokii 3,424 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Humans are stupid, just keep it moving, the fact it's 2019 and people dating people with different skin pigmentation is still considered taboo are morons /end thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 I dated this white guy and my friends weren't against it but like they would say slick comments saying white people stink and how they don't take showers. I didn't know how to respond because my bf at that time was white. My friend also said, "out of the good looking guys, you chose a white person." Has anyone experienced this? Also, it was also wired that my bf (at that time) would ask why I chose him when I told him I liked him smh just curious, what's your race? anyways, you should ignore those type of people, some of my family members are super conservative, they are even against me dating someone with different ethnicity, let alone the race. Funny thing is that, I do not find girls from my country attractive enough, not because of looks ,they are pretty, but I just can't vibe with them and since I grew up with them I do not find them rare/exotic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hueningchips 3 Posted March 19, 2019 Share Posted March 19, 2019 these days i feel like people honestly judge too much just because of skin color?? there is no one "label" for a certain race. maybe you met someone of that race that seems super mean but that wouldn't necessarily be the same for the next person. it's honestly so immature. a race doesn't and can't define everyone. you can't slap a label onto someone just because of the pigmentation of their skin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted March 19, 2019 Share Posted March 19, 2019 That's dumb af. My mom thinks white men just want us girls for sex, which is applicable to any man who just wants to fuck? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted March 23, 2019 Share Posted March 23, 2019 I didn't date someone outside of my race but I had a very close friend who would always call my bf(at that time) "dumb", "retard" , "try hard" etc . So I just cut her off . You're not a real friend if you don't respect your friend's relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernie8 28 Posted April 1, 2019 Share Posted April 1, 2019 If it only because of race then dont mind them. As long ur comfortable n treat ur right then keep on going cz ur the one whose in the relationship. 😉 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimins Sonyeo 280 Posted April 4, 2019 Share Posted April 4, 2019 Its not your color. Its that different culture and language. Those two are in the way to have a relationship. No color or size matter because we all know how every person is loved by someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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