Loonathehoe 4,579 Posted March 13, 2019 Share Posted March 13, 2019 I just broke up with my gf and I'm honestly really sad. I'm kinda trying to keep myself busy with school or reading kpop stuff (tho this is not the best option rn given all the shit happening) What do you guys do to keep your mind busy and lift the mood? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begginforthread 869 Posted March 13, 2019 Share Posted March 13, 2019 Music and alcohol. That might seem like a bad answer to some people but I'm not good with burying or pushing aside my emotions so I just dwell in it for as long as I need to and slowly come out of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose. 4,207 Posted March 13, 2019 Share Posted March 13, 2019 I used to drink But my last breakup I saw myself just driving around for a good while and just enjoying the breeze, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted March 13, 2019 Share Posted March 13, 2019 drink. listen to music. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loonathehoe 4,579 Posted March 13, 2019 Author Share Posted March 13, 2019 Lol at you guys saying drinking. I don't drink alcohol :v I guess I'll just keep on doing what I'm doing then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evermore 3,280 Posted March 13, 2019 Share Posted March 13, 2019 Lol at you guys saying drinking. I don't drink alcohol :v I guess I'll just keep on doing what I'm doing then I make myself iced coffee. Like...with vanilla ice. Liters of it. probably translates into thousand of calories but I couldn't care less after a breakup lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumimochi 182 Posted March 13, 2019 Share Posted March 13, 2019 I give myself a time limit to being outwardly sad (three days) and then I give back all of their shit, and hope that I don’t bump into them until I’m really over them. :-) Good luck OP, hope you’re feeling a little bit better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loonathehoe 4,579 Posted March 13, 2019 Author Share Posted March 13, 2019 I make myself iced coffee. Like...with vanilla ice. Liters of it. probably translates into thousand of calories but I couldn't care less after a breakup lmao Tbh I'm kinda UNDERweight rn so it seems like a good option. I like iced coffee too I give myself a time limit to being outwardly sad (three days) and then I give back all of their shit, and hope that I don’t bump into them until I’m really over them. :-) Good luck OP, hope you’re feeling a little bit better. Thing is we kinda ended on good terms? I feel like I should give the things back but at the same time not? I have high hopes regarding not seeing her given our schedules in uni are super different Thanks~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumimochi 182 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Thing is we kinda ended on good terms? I feel like I should give the things back but at the same time not? I have high hopes regarding not seeing her given our schedules in uni are super different Thanks~ So the reason I would give everything back is so that I won’t have a reason to think about them. Like. I mean. If they have me a house, that’s completely different (tbvh lol) but if they are small, materialistic things, or things that have lots of sentimental value, I’d get rid of them. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted March 16, 2019 Share Posted March 16, 2019 o no girl what happened :( i would just keep myself busy basically and work on yourself. i would talk to the people around me and you never know you might make good friends that way. i talked to friends or family and hangout with them they were my biggest support system whenever i had to heal. i would do what i liked like skateboarding, playing video games, listening to music/finding new songs. you can try doing new things like watching new series or movies, eat healthier, go to the gym, etc. when you work on yourself you just get happier from what i seen just remember that time heals so you don't have to be in a rush to get over her its ok to be sad for awhile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geewonii 66 Posted March 16, 2019 Share Posted March 16, 2019 listen to music Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geewonii 66 Posted March 16, 2019 Share Posted March 16, 2019 you go out with friends or you exercise to stay fit at the same time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 Trying to busy and putting more attention to other aspects of your life is probably the most mature way to deal with it. If you have stuff from her and you don't want to return just put it away, at least until you get over your ex. Normally I would try to focus on work related stuff and try to go out with my fried whenever I have some free time to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wonderwice 1,268 Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 I treat myself with food I love or do things I enjoy I workout and keep myself busy most of the time Being with friends and family has helped me too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mozzarellart 16 Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 There's really no way for me to lift my mood up, but I do try to distract myself at least with watching videos that entertain me. I hang out with my friends and my family, and center my attention on them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LOONA 1/3 720 Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 listening to an upbeat breakup song like this, bc its weirdly uplifting. in a way it makes me feel better. you said you're still feeling saddened by the break up so the lyrics for this song fits that. and after youre feeling better from the break up these songs would help too (a timeless bop!!) these songs helps me to feel better...i hope youre feeling better soon too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edgemoon 3,053 Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 Music Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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