tsukenomo 117 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 I'd observe them (not in a creepy way) to see what they're interested in or how they talk so I can have a better understanding of how to walk up to that person I want to be friends with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B612 22,399 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 say hi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Oh idk I just walk up to them if I really wanted to talk to them Or I’d get my friends to talk to them with me lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seunghee's eyebrows 32,615 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 say hi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
setokaiba 67 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Depends on why they're quiet. If they like being alone, I try not to bother them. If they're just shy, then they need someone to open them up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose. 4,207 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 You write them notes and pass it to them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 give some space. leave her/him alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FactMan 2,366 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Them being quiet doesn't mean that they don't wanna talk to you. Just talk to them (in the right conditions of course). If they don't talk much, it's fine, try again a couple times without being pushy. And that is all. People have this misconception that quiet people don't want to talk at all times or some weird thing. They're just willing to talk less often. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sooyoung's Wife 3,713 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Depends on why they're quiet. If they like being alone, I try not to bother them. If they're just shy, then they need someone to open them up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tafattsbarn 6,149 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Just talk to them like you would any other person, don't be creepy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serenee 3,730 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 I am quiet and also a little shy, so I am happy when someone talks to me first and shows interest in me without me having to making the first step all the time. So just say 'hi' and have a conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 i would say hi to them normally and make basic convo if i felt like it and sometimes it could lead to more but if they're generally quiet i wouldn't push them to talk to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted March 13, 2019 Share Posted March 13, 2019 approach them as you approach anyone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumimochi 182 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Know their name. Say “hiâ€. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 You need to be super chill and patient. I'm a very quiet person myself but in the right environment I prefer to approach someone who seems calm and quiet. If it's someone I bump up frequently I will just try to make eye contact with her and that would be it. Then, when I feel more comfortable, I would just try to say hi to them or just smile. After that I find it very easy to approach them and getting to know each other better. It doesn't work in all situations and it relies in making a girl notice you just by eye contact and in 'everydayness' but that's like my style with me being a very quiet and relaxed person. In my work for example I've met a very cute and extremely shy girl who would avoid making eye contact with me and would barely say a word to me . It was very awkward but no matter how quiet a person is you just have to keep acting normal and being friendly with them in a very casual manner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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