kookiestealer 92 Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 Male friend, has a girlfriend. Very social and charismatic If I give him to much attention, he pulls away/draw back (in person) Asks about my opinions, hobbies, life Initiates contact – if it has gone a week, he is the one to reinitiate Has no problem spending alone time with me We have similar hobbies, and he is very open/invites me to join him and his gf+ other friends We joke around a lot, can be a bit flirty Avoids physical contact (with other girls in general) Is very attentive, seems scared to hurt my feelings (I’m a very emotional person lmao) Smiles and laughs a lot when we are together I have met his girlfriend a few times, and he seems more distant/drawn back then but still engages in conversations with me (he is the one that starts them) Curious about my dating life Seems to relax more when I "namedrop" his girlfriend (kind of like, "I know you are taken") Very supporting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkle dust 1,841 Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 i mean you havent found a bad male friend i guess??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 why are you happy to have him as a friend? way you describe him, makes me think you like him? crush crush ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
â„“ucieâ„“â„“e 2,514 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 You have found yourself a good friend, just don't fall in love with him, that won't end good for you coz he seems very loyal to his gf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
金彩媛 1,795 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 you sound like you have a crush on him lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kookiestealer 92 Posted March 5, 2019 Author Share Posted March 5, 2019 why are you happy to have him as a friend? way you describe him, makes me think you like him? crush crush ? Just working on building healthy and non-toxic relationship with people, especially from the opposite gender. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemonko 131 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 Just working on building healthy and non-toxic relationship with people, especially from the opposite gender. things you said about him sounds like you like him, stuff you observe lol, dont be in denial, fine to have crush on people who have partners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zixun 102 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 He seems cool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
classiq 2,225 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 Probably. That line about being "a little flirty" is a cause for concern tbh. Because you know, you both don't act that way in front of the girlfriend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gayz 20 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 I agree with a lot of posts here. Your relationship as you describe it doesn't sound as platonic as it should for friend. Also I would be very careful. Don't jump into this friendship because "Oh I finally seem to have a decent male friend" I understand wanting to build strong and healthy relationships with new people, especially those different from you somehow (straight woman with straight male friend, etc) but as someone who went through something similar and had it turn out badly I would say keep your caution bulb lit (if it is off turn it on, even if it is very dim) I hope he is a guy you (and his gf) can trust. I wish you the best. So far he sounds as perfect as you're going to get without him being gay tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelytraveler 5 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 Are male friends just friends that you like talking to but don't find physically attractive or they are in a relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear123 274 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 The way you talk about him it would seem you like him more than a friend, so I would say no, you didn't find a good male friend, but rather you found a crush. In which case I would advise you to tread carefully because he does have a girlfriend and you don't want to put yourself in a situation where you might get your feelings hurt. Honest opinion? Keep some distances. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 you sound like you have a crush on him lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasySteezy 860 Posted March 16, 2019 Share Posted March 16, 2019 That's pretty cute actually. I was expecting a topic where a guy is described that seems to be just looking to bang. But he seems nice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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