People who have sex with people who they know are in relationships are just as bad as cheaters. Debate

[EasySteezy]

Honestly I think they are. It shows no respect for others. Shows they have a it's all about me attitude and dont care how it may make others feel. Also it clearly shows that they dont respect committed relationships.

 

I can have many questionable views on dating, but I would NEVER go after someone else's significant other. Nor would I cheat on someone if we became exclusive. Fuck all that

[BeatrixKiddo]

I agree. Though I think more of the responsibility falls on the person in the relationship.

[Siobhan Halo]

Also it clearly shows that they dont respect committed relationships.

If the person is cheating the relationship is not actually committed.

[edelgard]

its bad but the person in the relationship is worse

[Lexi.K]

Yeah.

 

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[hehe haha xd]

the person in the relationship is more at fault tbh...

[sure]

The person in the relationship is more at fault.

 

It's their responsibility to defend their relationship and uphold the trust between themselves and their partner. Not some random.

[Mystic]

Person in the relationship is worse. You're still a piece of shit if you know someone else is in a relationship, but at least you don't have the trust of that other person on your shoulders (unless you know them).

 

The person in the relationship is cheating and completely destroying the other person's ability to trust others.

[lovelytaeyeon]

sure, it's not right to go after someone's partner. but i hate it when people just target the other person and fail to hold their partner accountable. the other person is a symptom, not the cause of your relationship falling apart. It's easier to blame a stranger than admit that the person you trust and love betrayed you.

[FactMan]

No need to debate anything, it's a fucking fact lmao

[Holo]

I dont think this is a topic where both sides hold equal footing. Of course both of them are terrible if it was done knowingly. If the person not in a relation doesnt know then I see no fault on them besides bedding someone who they barely know which is a dangerous game

[Aelir]

They're both bad but the one in relationship are worse

[김민주]

If you have morals you would not sleep with someone in a monogamous relationship. If it's consented from the other person, then fine, but if it's "cheating" and you KNOW it's going to result in someone getting hurt, then stop being such a horny fuck, and think of someone other than yourself. 

 

Yes, if you're aware they're in a relationship, you're equally at fault. You could have said no, or not made an advance out of respect for their significant other, but you were too trash to do that. 

[#!nasigoreng]

sure, it's not right to go after someone's partner. but i hate it when people just target the other person and fail to hold their partner accountable. the other person is a symptom, not the cause of your relationship falling apart. It's easier to blame a stranger than admit that the person you trust and love betrayed you.

[urhandsrnaughty]

Obviously.

 

I legit met a couple of girls who only "date" married men because they're more financially stable and tend to pamper them. They also don't want the hassle of relationships. Pieces of trash through and through.

 

I get that if you're not the one in the relationship then you didn't make a commitment to anybody, but as a human being at least have the decency to respect other people's families and relationships. Just because the other person isn't respecting his partner doesn't mean you should do the same as well. You're just as bad.

[1306444]

Yeah they're just as bad.... Btw I have a related question: If your best-friend cheats with your boyfriend/girlfriend, who would you be more upset over? you're obviously hurt by both but who make you more disappointed? 

 

For me, it would be my best-friend, I would slap that b*tch before my bf. If my bf cheats with the stranger, I'm gonna slap him first and ignore the other one...

[Lilies]

No need to debate anything, it's a fucking fact lmao

[Thatoneuser]

I agree with you 100% 

[Oli London]

Agreed.

[cake mf]

Yeah they're just as bad.... Btw I have a related question: If your best-friend cheats with your boyfriend/girlfriend, who would you be more upset over? you're obviously hurt by both but who make you more disappointed? 

 

For me, it would be my best-friend, I would slap that b*tch before my bf. If my bf cheats with the stranger, I'm gonna slap him first and ignore the other one...

I agree with you, lol

[gayz]

I came close and deeply regret it. This was many years ago but I will always feel the guilt.

[Suzy Quatro]

I really don't feel the fault is at the same degree as the person who is actually in a relationship. I mean it's messed up if you're an adult and messing with someone with a family and stuff but when you're just dating I find it very bad when you're sleeping with the girl of a friend of yours or anyone else that trusts in you.