� NB 】 ITZY Chaeryeong's mother responds to a hate comment about her looks

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Article: "Our precious child" Comment left under hate comment about ITZY Chaeryung's looks

Source: M+ News via Nate

1. [+2,914, -373] I understand where the mother's coming from but I don't think leaving comment replies is the best way to handle this. People who leave hate comments aren't ones to listen to this kind of stuff. The only solution is to just ignore them.

2. [+2,081, -176] Your daughter is charming and pretty, but the standards for beauty are subjective and even if she were considered objectively pretty, hate comments will exist no matter what. It's what she'll have to deal with moving forward so please don't get hurt by them and strengthen your heart instead.

3. [+669, -10] Makes me realize how amazing Umji is. I remember every single article about her in the past had hate comments.

4. [+302, -69] Did her mother not realize that celebrities got hate when she let her go into this career?? There are so many people who get worse comments than Chaeryung and her mother's already acting like this over a few weeks of comments;;; not that I'm supporting hate comments but;;

5. [+269, -28] To be honest, idols are half visuals half skills, no? I think it's fair that they're criticized about their looks. I know that as parents, you think your kid is the prettiest and don't want them to be hurt by these things but if she chose to work as a member of society, you can't have everything your way.. I think it's their own fault for debuting in the celebrity industry expecting to hear only positive things. They didn't strengthen their mentality enough for this. I know that it's not fair to justify hate comments about skills or looks but.. it's just something she's going to have to deal with and overcome to reach her position~ Even the rest of us deal with this and keep our jobs up.. in worse conditions..

6. [+253, -43] So her mom basically wants people to either praise her or say nothing at all. I guess I won't care about this kid anymore.

7. [+223, -75] Mother, it's fact that your daughter is ugly.

8. [+206, -7] ... I know that it hurts the mother's heart to hear this but it's just the way idols are. You can't only have it your way... They're making money that others could only dream of at a young age. I suggest that she not read the comments then.

9. [+202, -48] If you have such a problem with this, you shouldn't have let her debut

10. [+192, -17] Mother, if your daughter is so precious to you, why didn't you just keep her home? Why allow her to take on a profession that keeps her in the public eye?? You need to teach her how to overcome these things. Don't beg for sympathy from the public.

11. [+183, -45] But Chaeryung is the visual hole of the group...

12. [+153, -10] She has to endure the weight of the crown. I know it's not right to write hate comments but celebrities will always be judged by the public. Singers especially are judged on three minutes of stage time so maintaining your looks is a must in order to capture the public's attention. If you think of it another way, technically celebrities make money off of the hate they get. It's better than being a nugu who never gets mentioned at all.

13. [+151, -7] Hate comments are wrong, I agree. However, if it's raining outside and you don't want to get even a drop of rain on you, you should not be going outside. If you don't want to get hate comments, don't become a celebrity. She has a long way to go and her mother is already nitpicking at all of this?

13. [+130, -3] Her mother's overreacting. Chaeryung hasn't even seen the worst of it yet... Hyoyeon and Umji got a ton more hate when they first debuted.

14. [+124, -6] I understand how she feels but responding to comments like this is only giving haters more bait. And she only just debuted, standing up for her like this will make haters think she's a total mama girl. I'm not defending haters but don't act like she's been suffering from these comments for 10 years like Moon Hee Jun has ã…‹

15. [+103, -5] Hello, being a celebrity is a career where your looks are your #1 priority, how are you telling people not to leave her any hate comments but only praise? ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ She's making money off of her looks, of course she's going to be judged on that too.

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1. [+2,355, -92] She's cute and charming, what's with all the criticism about her looks? How pretty are you haters? ã… ã…  Mother, find strength. I support you.

2. [+1,241, -77] Chaeyeon and Chaeryung are pretty~ how much prettier do people expect them to be? ã…  I'm a total jjang fan of Chaeyeon.

3. [+971, -78] Haters are only saying that because they haven't seen her in real life... she's so pretty and has an aura!! I only see her when she dances

4. [+536, -28] Just sue them

5. [+363, -124] I completely understand how upset the family must feel but she chose a job that puts her in the public eye. Obviously she's perfect in the eyes of her parents but this isn't a job where the only comments you'll get are praise, they need to remember that. You need to get used to the variety of comments you'll receive from the public and not get hurt by them. This is just the beginning and her mother is already losing her emotional control over a few comments saying she's not pretty. If her mother is already unstable like this, it only creates a worse environment for Chaeryung. I get her, I do, but this wasn't the best response for her to make.

6. [+585, -473] Yes, I understand why the mother's upset, but you win some you lose some. Just don't read the comments and keep a positive mind. It gets harder for Chaeryung if the mother's like this. Sometimes you need to learn that it's better to ignore things and move on.

7. [+100, -17] Sounds like the mother tried to hold it in as much as she could before writing the comment. Imagine how hurt she must feel reading comments putting down her daughter's looks.. Haters, please stop before you get sued.

8. [+101, -21] It's only been two weeks since her debut, I don't think anything good will come out of her mother responding to comments like this... I really don't like it when parents step in at their child's job. As long as the child works hard, time will solve everything ã…‹ The mother's in such a rush;;; It's not that I don't understand her but this is a problem that every celebrity needs to learn how to deal with once they debut in the industry. Does the mother think other celebrity mothers don't have words of their own to say? They're choosing to stay quiet because they know that anything they say can come back to hurt their child, tsk tsk.

 

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1. [+2,914, -373] I understand where the mother's coming from but I don't think leaving comment replies is the best way to handle this. People who leave hate comments aren't ones to listen to this kind of stuff. The only solution is to just ignore them.

[itouch]

13. [+130, -3] Her mother's overreacting. Chaeryung hasn't even seen the worst of it yet... Hyoyeon and Umji got a ton more hate when they first debuted.

[IKKY]

Tired at some these comments that say hate comments are wrong but inject a 'but' after that opinion. There's no 'but' about it, it's wrong. Period. No matter the circumstance.

[GoAwayILY]

You need thick skin in the music/movie industry. Anti comments are normal, it comes with the territory sorry.

[jenchulichaeng01]

I can’t at people thinking that just because some idols received hate for something, doesn’t mean it’s okay for other idols to get it too. Yes, it’s not fair that some idols get hate but the wrong people are those who are sending hate, not anyone else.

[JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY]

 

 

1. [+2,914, -373] I understand where the mother's coming from but I don't think leaving comment replies is the best way to handle this. People who leave hate comments aren't ones to listen to this kind of stuff. The only solution is to just ignore them.

 

[Mangoo2.0]

Knetz really have nothing better to do other than be complete and utter stubborn, heartless assholes to people who haven't done anything wrong huh 

[Rose.]

You need to have thick skin as a parent to handle dealing with hate comments about your children.

 

Whether it's how they look, the attitude they perceive, or just the fact that they just simply hate them, you have to be strong for their sake. 

[SugaJam]

I understand her concern but she just made matter worse. Chaeryeong did get some comments but the group overall had positive comments. Her mom just lit a fire on a spark and now chaeryeong get written as the “ugly†one. it’s unfortunate bc more people think she’s pretty but haters are like shark. when they smell blood they going to gather and now chaeryeong is going to get more hate on her visual than she could have had

 

 

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[wieauchimmer]

agree with the first comment. In an ideal world, there would be no such comments.

But that will never happen, people will always hate on the internet!

A lot of celebs say they never read up about themselves and i'd advice her mother to do the same, for her own sanity!

[la vie est belle]

I mean I knew this would happen to her because the others fit the beautify standard more than she does.

 

But when looking at reality.....it’s never gonna stop just get used to it.

 

Maybe be like Kang Daniel and make people love you anyway.

[PARADISE.MP3]

I hope she isn’t pressured to get work done, I think she’s really pretty 

[CandyCane23049]

I understand her concern but she just made matter worse. Chaeryeong did get some comments but the group overall had positive comments. Her mom just lit a fire on a spark and now chaeryeong get written as the “ugly†one. it’s unfortunate bc more people think she’s pretty but haters are like shark. when they smell blood they going to gather and now chaeryeong is going to get more hate on her visual than she could have had

 

 

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If you think about it though, she's most likely has been hearing things like this since 2014 when both girls went on K pop Star, she probably reached her breaking point and wanted to say something after 5 years of them being in the public eye.

[tiarabot]

her mom's reply is really sweet tbh i don't see anything wrong with what she said. even if you don't find someone pretty, there's no reason to leave rude comments to them. let's not normalize irrational hatred

[ryushin]

her mom's words are heartbreaking. chaery is a really pretty, lovely and hard-working girl who's THRIVING

the hate she's getting is fucked up, i wanna see how those bitter, nasty, insecure hags look like irl

[lagomorph]

Just because it’s standard to hate people in the public eye, it doesn’t mean it’s right or okay.

 

Maybe her commenting will motivate the haters, but I can’t criticize her for taking a stand.

[Wobblepenguin]

both sister have been getting these comment since sixteen its not just debut which is worst now due to her success. they didnt want chae to debut

[kimchi-nyoen]

7. [+223, -75] Mother, it's fact that your daughter is ugly. 

dayuum knetz are trash

[Moon Jellyfish]

Not @ knetz and some users here trying to low key justify hate comments just because its a common thing in the industry. Still doesn't make some of the things people say okay in anyway.

[金彩媛]

she should ignore the comments otherwise the haters will have more reasons to keep leaving nasty posts

case in point

 

7. [+223, -75] Mother, it's fact that your daughter is ugly.

 

they just want the attention

[Dramagoddess]

It's the internet. People are gonna say what they wanna say because they're behind their computer screens. Just be a savage right back to them. Don't try to use morals against keyboard warriors.

[mochichan]

10. [+192, -17] Mother, if your daughter is so precious to you, why didn't you just keep her home? Why allow her to take on a profession that keeps her in the public eye?? You need to teach her how to overcome these things. Don't beg for sympathy from the public.

 

 

Lol basically, "I don't want to stop being an asshole so you should lock up your daughters"

 

Do that even make sense?

[Chardonnay]

Cruelty shouldn't be something we accept just because it's common. That kind of thinking is a big part of the problem. 

[SugaJam]

If you think about it though, she's most likely has been hearing things like this since 2014 when both girls went on K pop Star, she probably reached her breaking point and wanted to say something after 5 years of them being in the public eye.

Yes and no

She was in Kpop star 5 years ago but we haven’t heard about her much until now that she debut. We don’t know how much but it wouldn’t be on the same level as celebrity because she’s a trainee.

If she had been facing so much hate then as trainee so why would mom let her become a celebrity knowing that it’s going to be 10x worse. As mom her instinct is to protect but she chose the worst possible way. Sometime the intention alone is not good enough. I don’t disagree with mom but I think her method just yield more hate for her daughter which was exactly what she was trying to avoid.

Can u imagine what it’s like to get an article about you saying how much hate you get for being “ugly� An article is like a confirmation and exaggeration. Maybe she did get some hate comments but this whole incident just magnified the situation and make it sound like sooooo many people think Chaeryeong is ugly enough to break mom’s spirit. Now you get people who know nothing jumping in and evaluate chaeryeong looks when all she need is for people to evaluate her skills. The attention has been shifted to the wrong place. Only fan care, the casual person will just evaluate on what they see. Beside people are not docile and will do what you ask, especially haters. Normal people would never write hate comments on someone’s look, but her mom just light up haters ass who feed on these kind of things.

 

 

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