Ash-Pikachu 51,270 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 [enter-talk] WHAT DO YOU THINK OF IDOLS DATING? Posted on January 26, 2019 (pic not included) Vote up - They earn money and can put food on the table because of the fans' love, so they can't date Vote down - Idols can't even date during the prettiest years of their lives, it's a sad thing To be honest, I'm also someone who fangirls on idols so when their dating news break out, I can understand their rationale but I still feel a bit sad. But at the same time, my bias is a celebrity whose ultimate goal is to be an artist so I don't think that you should use the "he's feeding off fan's love" as a logic. Of course, there are idols whose goal is to receive love and attention from the the public but I don't think that they can get up there with this kind of mentality. post response: [+386][-501] original post: here ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 20:07 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸° We spend on idols because of their skills, stages and charisma no? do you guys have to take ownership over these idols' personal lives too? If they are good at doing their job and treat the fans nicely, and that they cement their position as a celebrity after 4-5 years and then start dating, of course that would be the ideal case. And it's also good for your to love your bias but please don't think that you have ownership over them. Off stage, they are their own person and also have a family, siblings and friends. They might also have boyfriends and girlfriends just like the rest of us. It's not like idols are taking the fans' money with nothing in exchange. So please fangirl with restraint and don't take ownership over them. Let's all share 추천219 반대63 ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 14:53 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸° I seriously think that if people want to be celebrities, they have to give up on dating life. Especially idols who live off the fans' love. If you learned that your bias was dating, you won't be able to fangirl on him 추천175 반대67 ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 19:29 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸° The way you love your dog, the way you love your partner, the way you love your friends, the way you love your family, they are all different. So the way fans love their bias should also be different from loving a boyfriend/girlfriend. How are they the same? Also, if you think that you would spend that much money on your lover, they I think that you should stop spending on your bias... Honestly speaking, the kids who spend that much money on their real life partners and who end up breaking up after would also think that all of it was just a waste of money Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ASS 7,209 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 At the end of the day, they're still ordinary people. So just like us, duh they should date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
car door guy 11,500 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 People against idols dating or who unstan idols for dating are pathetic and need to stay away from me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnyrose 12,654 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 20:07 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸° Off stage, they are their own person and also have a family, siblings and friends. They might also have boyfriends and girlfriends just like the rest of us. It's not like idols are taking the fans' money with nothing in exchange. So please fangirl with restraint and don't take ownership over them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Everything 23,394 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 i seriously think that if people want to be celebrities, they have to give up on dating life. Especially idols who live off the fans' love. If you learned that your bias was dating, you won't be able to fangirl on him If the person commenting this is over 18 you have some serious issues Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
checkandmate 1,814 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 Ppl have no rights over their personal lives. But, tbh it's something that the companies cultivate as part of the "fangirl" experience, they're the ones that help this mentality of the celebrities being the fan's significant other become so prevalent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eloquence 3,783 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 i'll never understand how so called fans are unhappy seeing their bias happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blue7kaoru 17,423 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 I don't understand ppl who get mad when their biases date.... I mean if you really loved them then you'd root for their happiness. Idols would also love fans even more if they see them being respectful and nice when their relationship is revealed. I really hope fandoms' mentality towards dating in Kpop changes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellendciaga 7,198 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 every job comes with responsibilities and sacrifices I definitely agree that "banning" idols from dating is a bit extreme (although I don't think they're not allowed to date, more like they're recommended not to) but at the same time if you're going to be an idol (a profession which relies a lot on fan-service), you can't really expect some fans to be cool with you dating personally, I don't care either way but fans getting angry/disappointed over their faves' dating will always be a thing as long as fan-service is still utilised in K-POP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JisooBear 1,096 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 Anyone who has an issue with idols dating seriously needs to examine their priorities. It is absurd that they have to date in secret, and are treated like criminals when they get found out. Their personal life is their business, not ours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digiwon 5,843 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 Omg the negs here say it all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Issues 74 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 I don’t think idols should date. As we’ve seen with Jennie, when they start dating they care less and less about the group they’re in until until they just don’t even try anymore. Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,514 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 I don't know or care about who or even if they are dating. I just want them to put out lots of great music. What they do on their own time isn't my business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 At the end of the day, they're still ordinary people. So just like us, duh they should date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlinkleBee 2,701 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 what they do offstage shouldn't be any of our buisness ... period !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balancetonquoi 4,707 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 imagine working around hotties and not being able to date them ...a torture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 I seriously think that if people want to be celebrities, they have to give up on dating life. They're idols though, not monks and nuns. That should never be a thing for just being an idol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mangoo2.0 1,293 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 Dating is normal and I think idols should be able to do it freely without fear of being bashed by delusional possessive fans. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minatozaki Tzuyu 402 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 Because this is Kpop, I vote up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
satoori 45,814 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 Of course, they should be able to date. However I wish people like Dispatch wouldn't reveal them if the idols do not want to go public. Idol couples don't sudden'y start doing whatever in public when everyone know. Nope, instead they hide even more. All the pressure and stress may cause tension in the relationship. And often times lead to the couple breaking up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lighterxx 12,204 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 20:07 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸° We spend on idols because of their skills, stages and charisma no? do you guys have to take ownership over these idols' personal lives too? If they are good at doing their job and treat the fans nicely, and that they cement their position as a celebrity after 4-5 years and then start dating, of course that would be the ideal case. And it's also good for your to love your bias but please don't think that you have ownership over them. Off stage, they are their own person and also have a family, siblings and friends. They might also have boyfriends and girlfriends just like the rest of us. It's not like idols are taking the fans' money with nothing in exchange. So please fangirl with restraint and don't take ownership over them. Let's all share is this IQ i see Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdtwfs 3,600 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 I don’t think idols should date. As we’ve seen with Jennie, when they start dating they care less and less about the group they’re in until until they just don’t even try anymore. Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu LMAOOO I'm sorry but since when has Jennie ever said she did not care about Blackpink? She's expressed her dedication to the group on numerous occasions so don't spread some bullshit narrative to justify why idols shouldn't date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quintessential 881 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 I don't really care if my biases date, as long as they continue to provide me with good music then imfine.mp3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PossiblyMaybe 10,178 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 your faves are dating, whether you like it or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belkiss 22,803 Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 It's the industry's fault and this problem won't be solved unless the industry witnesses tremendous and total changes. Idols are stereotyped as entertainers, manufactured toys that get replaced once they reach "the expiration date" Companies "nurture" the fandom culture by the large and diverse fandom content Idols are not even considered real artists but just mere objects . Heck many people question idols' age before deciding to stan or even be a fan as if they are going to date them which is sad. Why many people get surprised when thee see old people attending concerts of idols or male fans attending concerts of male idols etc? The industry has cemented the fact that fans are not there for music , they are just there to fangirl or fanboy so, as a result of all these obstacles, how can fans consider idols are real human beings who have the right to date and live a normal live? Let's push them to consider idols real artists first and then they will eventually be considered real humans and not objects. It's a long, if not impossible, road to take Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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