Pessego 2,194 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 It happen twice last week and just happen like 10 mins ago with me I keep getting hit on ………… by females I- what about me screams that I must be gay baffles me but that's not the problem.. the problem is these chicks start getting mad and calling me a homophobe I- I'm not attracted to females. (okay maybe it was my fault with one cause she asked me why and I said I need something real i can feel not plastic cause that's madness BUT I WAS JOKING) Anyway my questions is should I feel bad that I'm not attracted to females ? and Why won't other Females Respect My Truth Like I Respect theirs ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose. 4,207 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 No. If you're not attracted, it's not your fault that they call you a homophobe. It's a matter of preference. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryushin 246 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 why would you feel bad? what they are doing is guilt tripping. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B612 22,399 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 There was a time in my life I really wanted to be gay because all my friends were and also my sister You can't change people's minds, nowadays I feel like people are really sensitive to anything, I was also once called a homophone for not wanting to be with a girl don't be sad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mangoo2.0 1,293 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 You shouldn't feel bad just cause you're not attracted to a specific gender. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aelir 327 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 (okay maybe it was my fault with one cause she asked me why and I said I need something real i can feel not plastic cause that's madness BUT I WAS JOKING) lmaoooo are you for real Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pessego 2,194 Posted January 22, 2019 Author Share Posted January 22, 2019 lmaoooo are you for real serious as a heart attack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aelir 327 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 serious as a heart attackyou're lucky she didn't slap you or something😂😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pessego 2,194 Posted January 22, 2019 Author Share Posted January 22, 2019 you're lucky she didn't slap you or something Shes the one that got mad and casllled me a homophobe just nsioxcnsoacocjicic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 Uh No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starsocks 7,986 Posted January 22, 2019 Share Posted January 22, 2019 No, but maybe you're taking the wrong approach when rejecting advances if multiple women have accused you of being homophobic? Maybe instead of bringing up the issue of sexuality when fending off these advances, you could simply say "I'm not interested," or "sorry, I don't see you like that." That way, it shouldn't be an issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pessego 2,194 Posted January 22, 2019 Author Share Posted January 22, 2019 No, but maybe you're taking the wrong approach when rejecting advances if multiple women have accused you of being homophobic? Maybe instead of bringing up the issue of sexuality when fending off these advances, you could simply say "I'm not interested," or "sorry, I don't see you like that." That way, it shouldn't be an issue. yeah but when i say im not intrested they keep quetsioning me like o really have u ever tried and etc its tiring if i said no i mean no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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