daicakes 1,102 Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 i feel like a lot of my "friends" joke about my body, and they always talk over me and if i say anything they find a way to joke about it and never take it seriously.,, :/ and i wish i could talk to them about it, but i'm afraid they won't take me serious (as usual) so i always keep quiet, but these days they're very harsh ?? and idk what to do anymore. anyways, idk know what to do, pls help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katsu curry chips 7,808 Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 THEY *JOKE ABOUT YOUR BODY*?????????? WTF? i think you should get angry, tell them off once and properly and then move on. that's what i do and what others would do with me if i cross the line and any normal decent person would def stop and think when faced by a reaction. if they don't then there's honestly something really wrong with them... and true friendships can cope with boundaries and integrity issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daicakes 1,102 Posted January 19, 2019 Author Share Posted January 19, 2019 THEY *JOKE ABOUT YOUR BODY*?????????? WTF? i think you should get angry, tell them off once and properly and then move on. that's what i do and what others would do with me if i cross the line and any normal decent person would def stop and think when faced by a reaction. if they don't then there's honestly something really wrong with them... and true friendships can cope with boundaries and integrity issues. i mean i'm tiny and a ~little bit~ fat tbh. i don't care about the "you're too small" jokes, but the fat ones hurt a lot :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katsu curry chips 7,808 Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 i mean i'm tiny and a ~little bit~ fat tbh. i don't care about the "you're too small" jokes, but the fat ones hurt a lot :/ jfc. who tf jokes about that tho. the only people who'd joke about my body growing up were my siblings and that's just because you can drop kick them right in the nuts. friends *joking* about that is such a NO?! unbelievable. also *harr harr you're small and chubbyyyy* is not funny. never was. it's *observational comedy*. it's the comedic equivalent of watching paint dry. a whole generation who's grown up and subsequently been RUINED by youtube reaction channel so called "comedy" but i digress.... you need to get angry. i'm not saying you need to go off and burn their houses down but you need to say "HEY. kindly SHUT THE FUCK -UP-." you don't need to dwell on it but they need to understand the seriousness of the situation. if you feel like you're really not getting through to them... idk what to tell you. you deserve friends who take you seriously. i've been a dick to my friends in my day too - but when they've put their foot down about a joke gone too far, i've LISTENED and felt duly embarrassed about it. :| that's friendship. it's not perfect, but there needs to be room for respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Skinny-penis 2,876 Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 SPEAK OUT like seriously ive been there tell your friends they need stop especially if it making you feel bad about your body Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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