Exactly, and I'm a shipper myself (selectively). It's just that some fans take shipping way too far that it becomes embarrassing and ridiculous
Screaming OTP over shit even strangers do with each other like walk next to each other, look at each other, sit next to each other/stand next to each other, pass a water bottle, etc.
They need to stop
I think the most critical cases are when it's all in the face of the 'idols' themselves.
I don't even know how those 'idols' continue to look at the 'shipped-partner' in the same way.
That blur of fantasy and reality is so disturbing.