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Why attention seeking behaviours are considered bad?


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People label confident people as attention seeking because other people act and percieve things different from them, i know I do! Since im an extremely reserved and quiet person, people who are outgoing and loud seem so inorganic and fake to me, because I would never do that in normal circumstances, so people who do probably arent acting normally

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It only needs to create a drama imo. You do it for the sakes of getting attention and not an acknowledgemnt for your efforts; which is why I find most of them are fakes & narcissistic who only cares abt themselves.

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People label confident people as attention seeking because other people act and percieve things different from them, i know I do! Since im an extremely reserved and quiet person, people who are outgoing and loud seem so inorganic and fake to me, because I would never do that in normal circumstances, so people who do probably arent acting normally

  

I think deep down all the attention seeking people are insecure about themselves.

Everyone likes attention, in a form or other, but only some people take the attention seeking to another level. These people need validation and place too much of their self worth on what others think.

  

It only needs to create a drama imo. You do it for the sakes of getting attention and not an acknowledgemnt for your efforts; which is why I find most of them are fakes & narcissistic who only cares abt themselves.

Thank you all for sharing your views on this... now,I do understand it more!!

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I think it's based on the extremes some people will go to to seek attention. If someone seeks attention in healthy and accepted ways then people focus on what it is they're trying to say or show but if someone just wants attention and has nothing to share then people focus on the fact that they're attention seeking. If it's harmless attention seeking, people will just laugh it off but when if it involves continuous forced actions or going to extremes then people will obviously react negatively.

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Everyone here had good insight, what I want to add is that attention seekers usually react very bad when they do not get attention on demand. Even if they get attention when they set on it, if by some chance attention is on someone else they often get very moody and upset. I've had a few such acquaintances and all three of them would grow very cold and snappy when they felt out of the spotlight and often act rudely towards the person they felt was stealing it.

 

Another thing is that they do notice when people become used to and somewhat immune to their usual ways of drawing attention and will keep exaggerating and in the end lying about things to get it once they feel their routine doesn't work.

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I don't think being confident and talkative makes you an attention whore. People who think this way come off as insecure and jealous to me. However it's pretty obvious when a person is being fake and OTT to the point it's grating and they're clearly seeking attention

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I think deep down all the attention seeking people are insecure about themselves.

 

Everyone likes attention, in a form or other, but only some people take the attention seeking to another level. These people need validation and place too much of their self worth on what others think.

Yep and then there will be a need to up their attention seeking ways that could bring more harm to them reputation-wise

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