Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 Some people were discussing this topic earlier . They were talking at how women has the right to abort a child if they feel they aren't ready or simple because they don't want to be a mother . But men can't decide if they want to be involve in the child's life . If men doesn't want to have the baby but the mother does they still have to send monthly llowance and take care of other expenses, and when they don't they can get sued by the mother Do you think men should have the right to decide not to be a father just like how wen have the right to decide if abort or have the baby? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Issues 74 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 Yes I do. We should allow men to opt out of child support so they can be encouraged to spread their seed, especially in more developed countries where the birth rate is declining. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nearra 752 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 I think they should be able to, but only while the woman can still decide to have an abortion. And the fact that the father renounced both his rights and obligations should be written down. So while he wouldn't have to pay a monthly allowance, he wouldn't have a right to see the child either unless the mother is ok with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clownny 179 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 Imo both man and woman should have a say in both situations, unless it was by force then yeah woman should decide if she wants to abort alone. It is whatever, but if a child is born and finds out that one parent didn't want them then child who didn't even ask to be born is the one suffering. Humans disgust me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimz 3,113 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 Yes. Women should also have the right to not want to be mothers anymore as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yiran 63 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 If women can legally abort, then the man should be able to legally get out of raising his child. Otherwise, no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Siobhan Halo 2,763 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 As long as there is a public record so any of man's future partners knows that he has a history of abandoning his partner and children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 Well yeah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delphine 20,871 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 But they can already opt out though? At least in my country, men can refuse to recognize babies on the civil administrative paper. It's an act of abandon, and it's possible to do. Same for women. Also equating that with abortion isn't fair to be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The depths of your Despair 7 Posted January 5, 2019 Share Posted January 5, 2019 As long as there is a public record so any of man's future partners knows that he has a history of abandoning his partner and children. I actually like this Idea, but I think it works both ways, while excluding situations like assaults which is a category of it's own, I think woman who repeatedly abort should also have a public record of it, it shouldn't be illegal but should be known. I have known people that just hoe about the town and abort whenever they get pregnant like it's scratching their asses in the morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rejeshrimp 1,064 Posted January 6, 2019 Share Posted January 6, 2019 men do have the choice, though? in my country i think anyway, a man gets the choice on whether or not he'll be in the child's life by putting his name on the child's birth certificate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coval 9,036 Posted January 6, 2019 Share Posted January 6, 2019 As long as there is a public record so any of man's future partners knows that he has a history of abandoning his partner and children. Do you also believe women should have a public record of their abortions too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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