TonyAndonuts 2,877 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 If someone told you they find your race particularly attractive, would that bother you or no? Like, I was chatting with this Asian dude on a dating app and he eventually started getting flirty and mentioned that he finds the features of Black guys particularly attractive. I personally wasn't offended or anything though, quite the opposite in fact, it made me pretty happy. Because...I mean with how some Asian countries still do black face as a joke and their obsession with pure white skin, I was kinda under the impression that we weren't very attractive to many of them... >_> So I was fine with it. It might be a different story if he was just obsessed with BBC or some shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Not necessarily fetishizing imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B612 22,399 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 It only matters what you think these days people get offended over everything so if that makes you feel complimented then be it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nip&Hip 2,601 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 I think it depends on the wording and the sentiment behind it and most importantly how it ends up making you feel OP. Reading your post I wouldn't say that's necessarily fetishising tho. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshmallows 9,902 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 No I think that's more of a compliment rather than fetishizing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyPopCupcake 2,421 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 What on earth, evreything is offensive these days, of course it's a compliment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 It only matters what you think these days people get offended over everything so if that makes you feel complimented then be it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinky Winky 1,232 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 I would take it as a compliment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jinsus 846 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Absolutely not. That's just a compliment and his preference, at least that's certainly how I would take it and most people I know would take it as a compliment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silicon soul 19,457 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Why don't you just ask him? Most cases people are overthinking things like fetishes and shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rejeshrimp 1,064 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 if you took it as a compliment and it made you feel good, then that's all that matters. other people's opinions on what a fetish may be can be different to your's. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jejungie 34 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 That's a compiment imo but we should admit that most of kpop fangirls fetishize Kpop boys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 imagine when complimenting other people is treated like a crime we live in such funny times Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurachinaDisuko 3,721 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 ...hm some of these replies.... But no it doesn't sound like he's fetishizing it. I mean those comments are usually more....sexually charged. He just sounds sweet. (but i will always find comments about "i think [this race/ethnicity's] features are attractive" a little weird... but that's just my personal problem.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SWASH 494 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Not really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyAndonuts 2,877 Posted December 14, 2018 Author Share Posted December 14, 2018 Why don't you just ask him? Most cases people are overthinking things like fetishes and shit.Yeaaah I doubt that'd go over well But I don't really care honestly, I was just curious what other people think and if I was in the minority. Looks like I'm not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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