Have you ever dated someone for fun or because you thought you loved them?

[LaLisaMakesUSingLaaa]

I have once, it was because i thought i loved him but i guess it wasnt meant to be. If there was a fault i guess it would be on both of us. Young and dumb i guess uwu. we dated for like a week but then we ended it.

 

 

 

 

[x Mellow x]

I have never dated

[Seunghee's eyebrows]

No I ain't a player

 

[eternal glow]

Yeah? I wouldn't say "for fun" because I genuinely thought I liked them a lot but it turns out that wasn't the case.

[SeeYaWithYou]

I guess I would say that a lot of my relationships were "for fun" bc Im not looking to get married any time soon so I'm not trying to find someone i see a long-term future with atm

[TickleMePink]

I don't think so

[Map_Linh]

Yeah? I wouldn't say "for fun" because I genuinely thought I liked them a lot but it turns out that wasn't the case.

[LaLisaMakesUSingLaaa]

I have never dated

Thats fine, i shouldnt have dated in the first place. (This was like my first relationship)

 

No I ain't a player

 

Im glad youre not! Girls would have many things to say if u were lol uwu.

 

Yeah? I wouldn't say "for fun" because I genuinely thought I liked them a lot but it turns out that wasn't the case.

Thats fine! that was like me

 

I guess I would say that a lot of my relationships were "for fun" bc Im not looking to get married any time soon so I'm not trying to find someone i see a long-term future with atm

Nice, i wouldnt say mine was for fun either but your reason is like more valid than mine

 

I don't think so

Thats fine! Have u ever had been in a relationship though?

[Caiii]

Yep. I was super insecure at this time and there was this girl who was weirdly super into Asians, told me nice things, gave me a cookie or some shit, turns out I liked the attention. When i got an ounce of confidence and self-respect I immediately jumped ship. Basically just used her to gas me up

[LaLisaMakesUSingLaaa]

Yep. I was super insecure at this time and there was this girl who was weirdly super into Asians, told me nice things, gave me a cookie or some shit, turns out I liked the attention. When i got an ounce of confidence and self-respect I immediately jumped ship. Basically just used her to gas me up

oh, wow.....uh im not sure how to feel about this but its cool that u could open up especially to strangers

[deobizone]

i dated someone because they gave me stuff (jewelry , etc.) i ended up not being able to take it after long because they kept gushing to others (especially adults we knew) that we were dating and it made me uncomfortable keep being asked/talked to about it.

[LaLisaMakesUSingLaaa]

i dated someone because they gave me stuff (jewelry , etc.) i ended up not being able to take it after long because they kept gushing to others (especially adults we knew) that we were dating and it made me uncomfortable keep being asked/talked to about it.

Awesome that u could open up! 

[Heekkie]

You don't loved someone you just know/date, you just infatuated with them, love is when you already get to know them.

[Caiii]

Awesome that u could open up!

 

it is what it is. sometimes you think you love someone, most often you just really hate to be alone, you get these two things mixed up a lot

[Bel.]

yeah

It's mostly because my attention spawn is pretty low and I get disinterested in someone pretty quickly. That wasn't the case for all the people I dated tho.

[LaLisaMakesUSingLaaa]

it is what it is. sometimes you think you love someone, most often you just really hate to be alone, you get these two things mixed up a lot

that is true

[TickleMePink]

Thats fine, i shouldnt have dated in the first place. (This was like my first relationship)

 

Im glad youre not! Girls would have many things to say if u were lol uwu.

 

Thats fine! that was like me

 

Nice, i wouldnt say mine was for fun either but your reason is like more valid than mine

 

Thats fine! Have u ever had been in a relationship though?

 

Yeah, a couple of times

My feelings for them were real, it's just they ended because of certain circumstances that came up 

[edelgard]

i dated someone bc everyone thought we were cute together

[OhGosh!]

I mean, the point of dating someone is to have fun... so, yeah?

[starsocks]

I feel like all dating is "for fun" unless it's for religious/cultural/familial reasons

[LaLisaMakesUSingLaaa]

I mean, the point of dating someone is to have fun... so, yeah?

 

 

I feel like all dating is "for fun" unless it's for religious/cultural/familial reasons

Dont you guys love having the same opinions on dating? lol uwu

[Jstarfully]

Kind of, I had a puppy love thing in my country's equivalent of middle school. We both liked each other for two whole years and never made a move on each other until like the last couple of months before school ended and we would be separated for high school. We were both kind of awkward and he was really frigid. I mean, we were just too young, but we really did very much like each other.

 

Then when I was 16 I dated this guy who was one year older than me, not because I thought I liked him but because I thought he was really nice and sweet and thought I could learn to like him. Apart from the fact that this is a bad thing to base a relationship on, he became really controlling and started distancing me from my friends and other interests. When I tried to take a break from him he said he was in love with me. It had been like, a month. Anyway he freaked out and instead of taking a break over summer we broke up.

 

So, yes to both but... yeah, those things usually don't turn out too well.

 

My boyfriend right now, we had an instant connection from our very first date and following up on this relationship has been the best thing that has happened to me in a long time.

 

Essay over lmao