Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Every time men tries to speak up about their sexual assaults or rapes they are made fun of and always told that women get raped and sexual assaulted more by women and their own fellow men,which lead to most men to stay silent about what happened to them. So when will men also get the same suppose from everyone like women do? It seem like people think sexual assault and rape isn't as equally as bad on men as women, but it's not true. Every rape and sexual assault victims should be spoke up for not just one side more than the other. Rape and sexual assault is a terrible thing and ruins both sexes lives equally, so why not speak for both sexes equally instead of one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dickâ„¢ 1,747 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Rape is bad no matter who do that (whether male or female). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mochichan 12,341 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 No. Society still have that masculine gender role. It's not going to be easy to change yrs of conditioning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solange knowledge 1,555 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 · Hidden by MomoMoon115, June 4, 2014 - No reason given Hidden by MomoMoon115, June 4, 2014 - No reason given misssaaaandrryyyyyyyyy Link to comment
PD101 Rep: BoA 1,183 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Men get the shafted secretly in a number of serious issues but in the age of everyone becoming a social justice warrior, no one wants to address it because "men lead the world anyway". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noon 20,968 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 it will take time, but hopefully one day people will realize that no one deserves to be a victim of a crime. this is an issue i actually feel strongly about but idk what's even the point of posting since knowing you, you're posting bc you want to start shit, not bc you care T_T Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Nobody takes lightly rape, men or women , what makes you think that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted June 4, 2014 Author Share Posted June 4, 2014 No. Society still have that masculine gender role. It's not going to be easy to change yrs of conditioning. True Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckJohnny 14,775 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Men HAVE to speak up about it. Men HAVE to change things and destroy the stereotypes that men are strong and women are too weak. We can't help if they don't help themselves first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 ... Why do men have to talk about men's issues and at the same time make it seem as though women are being treated better than they are? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 It's getting better at least. Laws and statistics in western countries have started to recognize in the past few years that man can be raped, by men and women as well. Something that didn't always happen, so there's that. Men get the shafted secretly in a number of serious issues but in the age of everyone becoming a social justice warrior, no one wants to address it because "men lead the world anyway". Basically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted June 4, 2014 Author Share Posted June 4, 2014 Men HAVE to speak up about it. Men HAVE to change things and destroy the stereotypes that men are strong and women are too weak. We can't help if they don't help themselves first. What is the difference in a men starting twitter hashtag for to support women and women starting a twitter hasgtag to help men? Why can women give those men help like they want men to give them help, isn't that what equality is about? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macchatea 1,039 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 ... Why do men have to talk about men's issues and at the same time make it seem as though women are being treated better than they are? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ancor288 3,306 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Men do not speak about their abuse, so statistically speaking we don't know what percentage of men get raped. However, for men to speak up more, we have to educate society into dispelling the notion that being raped makes someone weak. Most men are raised to be machos and often they don't want to share anything that they might have gone through such as rape or sexual harrassment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sotired 5,376 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Rape is a terrible crime, which can bring severe damage to someone both physically and mentally, no matter the gender. Sadly, in the society we live in today and the preconcieved notion we have of male and female, rape won't be considered the same among both genders. I recently read an article where a teenage boy was raped by an older women and the majority of comments consisted of 'he got hard so it isn't rape' or 'omg, he's so lucky'. Ignorance at it's finest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted June 4, 2014 Author Share Posted June 4, 2014 it will take time, but hopefully one day people will realize that no one deserves to be a victim of a crime. this is an issue i actually feel strongly about but idk what's even the point of posting since knowing you, you're posting bc you want to start shit, not bc you care T_T I don't joke about stuff like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 What is the difference in a men starting twitter hashtag for to support women and women starting a twitter hasgtag to help men? Why can women give those men help like they want to give men help, isn't that what equality is about? Your topic implies that women are treated better when they're raped. WHERE do you see that happening? How many times have you heard of rape cases where women are told it's their fault by even the police assigned to the case? If you started your topic and spoke about equality it would show that you care about women and men but your anti-women agenda is clearly showing in the OP you made. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted June 4, 2014 Author Share Posted June 4, 2014 Your topic implies that women are treated better when they're raped. WHERE do you see that happening? How many times have you heard of rape cases where women are told it's their fault by even the police assigned to the case? If you started your topic and spoke about equality it would show that you care about women and men but your anti-women agenda is clearly showing in the OP you made. Every time a man speaks of equality it's anti woman. No one should be blamed for being raped and if anyone blames anyone for being raped they are no different than the person who raped him or her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckJohnny 14,775 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 What is the difference in a men starting twitter hashtag for to support women and women starting a twitter hasgtag to help men? Why can women give those men help like they want to give men help, isn't that what equality is about? I don't understand what you are trying to say here. Every time a man speaks of equality it's anti woman. Uhm what. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noon 20,968 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Men HAVE to speak up about it. Men HAVE to change things and destroy the stereotypes that men are strong and women are too weak. We can't help if they don't help themselves first. if this was about women, you would (rightfully) get negged for victim-blaming. men are speaking up. do you honestly think people are listening? I don't joke about stuff like this. okay then, i was wrong to assume, my apologies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Every time a man speaks of equality it's anti woman. No one should be blamed for being raped and if anyone blames anyone for being raped they are no different than the person who raped him or her. It's not that you speak of equality, it's that you speak of equality for men and women but throw women under the bus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iljin Prince 904 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 The last thread was fucking stupid because there's a difference between men and rapists. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckJohnny 14,775 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 if this was about women, you would (rightfully) get negged for victim-blaming. men are speaking up. do you honestly think people are listening? Let's be real a lot of men don't talk about it. It's easy to pretend nothing is happening when men are too scared to talk about it. I don't understand how I am blaming the victim? All I'm saying is for things to change men need to take action. Go protest about it, join slut walks, write on social platforms, start a trend on twitter, etc. Staying silent does not help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted June 4, 2014 Author Share Posted June 4, 2014 It's not that you speak of equality, it's that you speak of equality for men and women but throw women under the bus. No one is throwing anyone under a bus. I am asking this to both sexes this question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Good People 2,455 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 No it will never happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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