"Questionable" dating advice that people give all the time?

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People always say rejection doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you and it's the other person's loss or whatever. And that it doesn't actually mean you're not worthy or whatever.

 

But idk.

 

There are unreasonably attractive people out there that attract..... most people.

 

But if your goal is to physically attract 90% of the people you interact with... then yeah what you have now isn't enough.

 

Brad Pitt doesn't wait. Amanda Seyfried doesn't wait. Megan Fox doesn't wait. 

 

But I mean it doesn't have to be black and white. We're not celebrities. But not being attractive to 99% of the people you interact with doesn't make you shitty either. 

 

 

Some dating advice that YOU find questionable?

[eriy.m]

"You should give them a chance!!!"

 

yikes.

[JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY]

"You should give them a chance!!!"

 

yikes.

 

why? You sounded like people dont have second chances. 

[eriy.m]

why? You sounded like people dont have second chances.

 

Usually when I discuss someone that has been bothering me even though I rejected them, some people tell me this and it makes me uncomfortable..

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Usually when I discuss someone that has been bothering me even though I rejected them, some people tell me this and it makes me uncomfortable..

Forcing yourself to give someone a chance will make you angry and frustrated TBH.

[UMJI MOODS]

Put yourself out there. Fine if you are good looking or charming, otherwise no.

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Put yourself out there. Fine if you are good looking or charming, otherwise no.

[DramaticTaeyeon"]

why? You sounded like people dont have second chances.

 

If you know you don’t like someone, why go through it? It sets up an unnecessary situation where both sides can get hurt.

[love]

"play hard to get"

 

nah, just makes the other person think you're not interested in them at all.  who wants to chase after someone who plays mind games all the time?  at least i don't

[Oli London]

"You should give them a chance!!!"

 

yikes.

Yah, this.

[Edgemoon]

"You should give them a chance!!!"

 

yikes.

^^^^

And if you don't go out with people you don't like "you're too picky". Oh well