Aaron Yan’s Parents Threatened To Commit Suicide After Learning Son’s Sexual Orientation

[KentasGlittery EyeMakeup]

 

Former member of Taiwanese boy band Fahrenheit (飞轮海), Aaron Yan (炎亚纶) has had his sexual orientation exposed in the worst possible way. His ex-boyfriend referred to as Mr. A has accused Aaron of dating 3 different men at the same time.

 

In light of this revelation, his 2nd ex-boyfriend step up to clear his name, claiming that Aaron did not cheat on A. Aaron has released an official statement to acknowledge his sexual orientation, but if you think he’s having it bad now, wait until you find out about his tense relationship with his parents.

 

Aaron has always been gay. He realized his sexual orientation when he was a teenager, but his traditional parents couldn’t accept it. So for 20 years, Aaron has been struggling with his parents in regards to his homosexuality.

 

Aaron had a brother, but he passed away when Aaron was only 1-year-old. Being the only son in the family, his parents expected their son to get married one day and have a family in the traditional sense. But after learning of his son’s sexual orientation, Aaron’s mother became very controlling of who he was socialising with.

 

According to Aaron, he often argued with his parents and they would frequently threatened to kill themselves. “One time, my father wrapped a wire around his neck until he was close to dying. He told me to put on his socks and send him on his way.â€

 

In one argument, Aaron injured his hand after slamming into a wall. Though his injury was reported in the news, Aaron kept the real reason behind the injury to himself at the time. But after struggling for 20 years, Aaron managed to make peace with his parents and their relationship is reportedly better now.

 

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[Lil Ayy Big Gay]

Sacks of shit

 

 

like they really tryna 'force' him to be straight or else they will kill themselves.

 

It's both disgusting and insanely abusive

[hurtinghoya]

disgusting parents... just disgusting...

[Xin]

This is really sad but honestly not surprising .... I hope things starting to look up for him.

[protoplasm]

[Sdm]

This is so sad. I hope he's coping well and has supportive people around him.

 

Also I'm relieved he didn't actually cheat, I really like him as an actor.

[French Rose]

But after struggling for 20 years, Aaron managed to make peace with his parents and their relationship is reportedly better now.

I'm relieved to see the end of the article. This is usually the struggle of having strict, traditional Asian parents. Sometimes the pressure is just too much and I hope that the parents will eventually learn to accept their child's sexual orientation whole heartedly.

[zella]

Sacks of shit

 

 

like they really tryna 'force' him to be straight or else they will kill themselves.

 

It's both disgusting and insanely abusive

[adda]

I feel sorry for his parents. 

How desperate they must have been, how guilty they must have felt to threat with suicide. 

 

 

But after struggling for 20 years, Aaron managed to make peace with his parents and their relationship is reportedly better now.

 

is good their relation is better now and they accepted the situation.

[JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY]

wtf 

[Stepkdramafan226]

[Ihavepopcorn]

Does that actually work...the whole threatening to kill yourself shit if I don't do what you want? Cause I swear if someone pulls that shit on me they are going to die because I'm not indulging them.

[singnotes]

This is really sad but honestly not surprising .... I hope things starting to look up for him.

 

Yeah, it's not really surprising. I'm glad they've resolved their differences though.

[Mr.Skinny-penis]

ok but can we do something about the ex bf who started this mess

i feel so sorry for aaron theres a reason why he didnt come out he was knew his parent wouldn't accept him and that sucks he didnt even get to come out in the way he was outed by a disgusting who tried to ruin in his life why cant his identify be release to the public 

[KentasGlittery EyeMakeup]

I feel sorry for his parents. 

How desperate they must have been, how guilty they must have felt to threat with suicide. 

I feel sorry for him, not his parents, they're not the ones who should be pitied in this situation. What they did to him is emotional blackmail and abuse. He's a victim in all of this, not them. Frankly, they sound like horrible people.

[anyi]

This is what homophobia is doing with people  How can parents guilt trip their own kid, horrible

[junmyeonsnoodle]

This is sad. Also terrible that he forcibly outed to the general public. I'm not really in the know about Taiwanese pop culture, but I hope that he getting support from the gp over there. 

[Guest]

Poor guy. His parents are incredibly selfish for thinking that threatening with suicide will force him to be straight wtf.

[xoxomandoo]

I'm glad their relationship is better now but it is so fucked up that his parents threatened to kill themselves in order guilt trip him. I'm still livid that his ex-boyfriend, outed him because he felt scorned. He had absolutely no right to do that. 

[danni_iu_jess]

honestly not surprising at all pretty sure a lot of asian parents are like this. but i'm glad things are getting better now for him

[Xin]

Does that actually work...the whole threatening to kill yourself shit if I don't do what you want? Cause I swear if someone pulls that shit on me they are going to die because I'm not indulging them.

 

Yes it does. When it's your parents, it does. You feel shitty for giving in but you think you couldn't live with yourself if you didn't.

[Ddeulgi]

omggg he is the guy in just you drama 

[125628]

that's fucking terrible...

i feel so terrible for Aaron and everything he's going through right now

 

whoever that A is, he's an asshole and i hope he regrets ruining Aaron's life like this

[adda]

I feel sorry for him, not his parents, they're not the ones who should be pitied in this situation. What they did to him is emotional blackmail and abuse. He's a victim in all of this, not them. Frankly, they sound like horrible people.

 

that's your opinion. I think some parents feel overwhelming guilt when they found out their child is gay and go through agony " I wish I was dead, where did I go wrong etc."  It must have been a shock for Aron's parents and both ( parents and child) went through agony. 

[Zamo]

I feel sorry for his parents. 

How desperate they must have been, how guilty they must have felt to threat with suicide. 

 

 

But after struggling for 20 years, Aaron managed to make peace with his parents and their relationship is reportedly better now.

 

is good their relation is better now and they accepted the situation.

You're disgusting