jks 45 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I can relate to this so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S P R I N G 2,519 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Me tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I think a lot of people can relate to this... It's nice to see someone open up about it in public Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
love&pink 2,580 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I think a lot of people can relate to this... It's nice to see someone open up about it in public Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DULSET 4,587 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Me tbh. What stops you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smrookies girls 1,085 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I'm not surprised, Zayn never "acted like" a muslim. He drinks alcohol for years, smoke(d?) weed .... I know everyone's faith is different but all of these little details showed that he doesn't believe in islam as much as many others to begin with. I'm glad he's being honest to the public and with himself, it must be hard to realize you don't believe in somethng you grew up in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarc 257 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Time he made that public lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S P R I N G 2,519 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 What stops you? What do you mean? I meant i’m like zayn as in i don’t announce my self as muslim anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkle dust 1,841 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I relate but "If you're a good person everything is going to go right for you" that's some delusion right there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maho 37 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 wbk sweetie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaeGiElitist 4,238 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Do you king. Now he can stop getting passive aggressive comments from some people online. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DULSET 4,587 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 What do you mean? I meant i’m like zayn as in i don’t announce my self as muslim anymore. Oh I think I misunderstood Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jks 45 Posted November 10, 2018 Author Share Posted November 10, 2018 What stops you? I know you didn’t quote me, but for me it’s mostly because of my family. They’re really strict and not accepting of non-muslims at all. And I know they would be heartbroken and I dont want to disappoint them either. I’m fortunate enough to live in a secular country, but most of my friends are muslims too, so it still would be diffucult. I don’t think I’ll ever have the courage to leave Islam (officially), at least not while I still live at home Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lugoose 11,398 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 is anyone surprised Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I know you didn’t quote me, but for me it’s mostly because of my family. They’re really strict and not accepting of non-muslims at all. And I know they would be heartbroken and I dont want to disappoint them either. I’m fortunate enough to live in a secular country, but most of my friends are muslims too, so it still would be diffucult. I don’t think I’ll ever have the courage to leave Islam (officially), at least not while I still live at home I know you didn't quote me [2] but I can heavily relate on that. The crazy thing is that my dad isn't even a practicing muslim, only my mom but they would both be so disappointed if I were to say I've been losing my faith. The even crazier thing is that my brother is very open about not believing in Islam, so the responsibility to carry is twice as heavy on my shoulders... issa life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChimchiMira� 1,739 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Well he never practiced as one. But all he needs is iman and aqidah even if he doesnt practice but he doesnt believe in it meaning he was never a Muslim. Glad he went public with it, so people wont keep having hopes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaegirl 2,273 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 it's his choice, it's his life. None of us have any say in the matter, including his parents. It's brave of him to admit that publicly, it must be tough admitting that to himself in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkpanda_spirit 14,647 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 almost all muslims act like him nowadays tbh. my friends smoke, drink, date, have sex... even I do sinful actions. I'm glad he can finally talk about it, I'm sure a lot of people can relate to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jks 45 Posted November 10, 2018 Author Share Posted November 10, 2018 I know you didn't quote me [2] but I can heavily relate on that. The crazy thing is that my dad isn't even a practicing muslim, only my mom but they would both be so disappointed if I were to say I've been losing my faith. The even crazier thing is that my brother is very open about not believing in Islam, so the responsibility to carry is twice as heavy on my shoulders... issa life It’s honestly the same with one of my brothers, even though he hasn’t really talked about, but my entire family knows at this point. Muslim girls have it the hardest tbh, all that extra pressure is tiring Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChimchiMira� 1,739 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 almost all muslims act like him nowadays tbh. my friends smoke, drink, date, have sex... even I do sinful actions. I'm glad he can finally talk about it, I'm sure a lot of people can relate to him. Yeah most muslims dont act like muslims anymore. This is the truth. The question is whether the have believe in their faith or not to determine they are muslims or not. People commit sins and show it off all day but if they still believe then they are muslim, if they dont then they are not muslim even if they acted more muslim than a muslim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkpanda_spirit 14,647 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Yeah most muslims dont act like muslims anymore. This is the truth. The question is whether the have believe in their faith or not to determine they are muslims or not. People commit sins and show it off all day but if they still believe then they are muslim, if they dont then they are not muslim even if they acted more muslim than a muslim. but if they really were faithful would they still commit all these sins?.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChimchiMira� 1,739 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 but if they really were faithful would they still commit all these sins?.. Every driving school teaches how to use the signals but peoole dont do it anyway.(I saw this phrase from somewhere ). We humans are not like angels. We have wills to do, or not to do. That is why rewards for humans are greater in the after life. I know many gays/party people/club maniacs in my cirlce of friends out there committing all sorts of things and showing off in their instas or twitter but they still believe in Islam and admits their wrongs eventhough they did all that anyway. And I know someone who dont do all these but is an athiest. My rule is I dont immediately judge someone as kafir unless he confess that he isnt a believer anymore. At the end of the day it is a relationship between you and god, whether you believe in your faith or not. Even myself, I am not that religious as well and still commit sins, but I am still a firm believer of my faith. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkpanda_spirit 14,647 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Every driving school teaches how to use the signals but peoole dont do it anyway.(I saw this phrase from somewhere ). We humans are not like angels. We have wills to do, or not to do. That is why rewards for humans are greater in the after life. I know many gays/party people/club maniacs in my cirlce of friends out there committing all sorts of things and showing off in their instas or twitter but they still believe in Islam and admits their wrongs eventhough they did all that anyway. And I know someone who dont do all these but is an athiest. My rule is I dont immediately judge someone as kafir unless he confess that he isnt a believer anymore. At the end of the day it is a relationship between you and god, whether you believe in your faith or not. Even myself, I am not that religious as well and still commit sins, but I am still a firm believer of my faith. You make a really good point. I'm like you, I'm not really religious (I only fast during ramadhan) but I still have faith (?). I listen to Quran verses before exams and believe I will do well if Allah is with me. I thought it was hypocritical from me.. lol even my real name means 'faith'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xoxo7 1,073 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I can relate to what he said And I actually believe in it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChimchiMira� 1,739 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 You make a really good point. I'm like you, I'm not really religious (I only fast during ramadhan) but I still have faith (?). I listen to Quran verses before exams and believe I will do well if Allah is with me. I thought it was hypocritical from me.. lol even my real name means 'faith'. I guess most muslims are muslims only during Ramadhan and pray when exams are near cause I'm the same lol. Hypocrites, I feel that everytime Ramadahan comes, cause I value fasting more than prayer. Probably because if I dont fast, I have to pay(something to the poor, I forget what it is already).But for me it is good to be hypocrites, sometimes trying to be a good muslim because you never know maybe you will practice more as muslim. Cause I for sure am a different person during Ramdhan thats what I noticed in me, and others around me. One thing for sure, the one thing keeping me as a a believer, is because its the only religion I can accept logically and spiritually on why I'm even here today. But different people have different views and I think differently from my atheist friend. It is okay to think differently because having a religion is for yourself/your faith and not for other people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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