ChungJoJo 31 Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 She's a cashier at this place I go to eat, every once in a while, HOWEVER I'm really scared of asking her out, because In this day and age, asking a woman out, is practically stepping into a minefield, and I'm afraid that If I do, she'll freak out on me and falsely accuse me of sexual misconduct, or rape, or some other crazy accusation, and then It'll become a nightmare, and I really don't want to go to court, and have to bring a lawyer with me and all this other unnecessary things, OR worse, go to jail for simply asking a girl out. Honestly, I'm starting to doubt my own self-confidence at this point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hehe haha xd 3,081 Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 If you think she'll "accuse" you of sexual misconduct, rape, etc. then you shouldn't ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vitaminplus 1,971 Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 You're really overthinking this ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riserise 1,475 Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 It seems like you use this post more to complain about #metoo than that you are really interested in this girl. You say nothing about why you like her, but complain a lot about asking a girl out. Better not do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neptune 2,170 Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
say meow 1,214 Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 Damn this took I turn I did not expect when I clicked this Shut up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t a e c h u u 92 Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChungJoJo 31 Posted November 9, 2018 Author Share Posted November 9, 2018 It seems like you use this post more to complain about #metoo than that you are really interested in this girl. You say nothing about why you like her, but complain a lot about asking a girl out. Better not do it. I don't wanna go too much into detail, is that too hard to understand? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riserise 1,475 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I don't wanna go too much into detail, is that too hard to understand? Yet you go into a lot of detail about why you don't want to do it. If that's how you feel, don't ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flashfox 3,149 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atulvells 2,265 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 with that mindset, don't even bother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormie 688 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 I came in here thinking it was really sweet and I was gonna give you a sincere answer but now I kinda wanna kick you in the shin. If you want to play on the whole "can't even talk to woman without being accused" crap then just go out and say it, don't make up a fake "want to ask. and just to be clear, if you aren't TOUCHING HER, IGNORING HER NO, SAYING HIGHLY INAPPROPRIATE THINGS or FORCING YOURSELF ON HER then why or even how can she? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KJBrosENT 546 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 with that mindset, don't even bother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChungJoJo 31 Posted November 10, 2018 Author Share Posted November 10, 2018 with that mindset, don't even bother k, what should I do then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atulvells 2,265 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 k, what should I do then. No one is going to accuse you of sexual misconduct, rape or any other crazy accusations unless you do any of those things! Why would that even come into your head if you're just going to ask her out?! I wanted to send a nice message but after reading the OP it just really irritated me. Good luck and don't do anything stupid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SORAKA 348 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 You sound so misogynistic. You shouldn't be doubting your self-confidence but rather your mindset. Yes, false accusations who happen but the chances of that happening are very slim opposed to actual rapes and sexual harassment. So, don't do those things and you should be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 11, 2018 Share Posted November 11, 2018 If you really like that girl don't ever ask her out, you're doing her a favor and it's probably for the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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