So in Asian culture, the female isn't allowed to sleepover at their boyfriend's place?

[Whiteknight]

Ok this has been on my mind recently and I have read stories where even when the female is 18 and older that their parents still contest to this. 18 AND OLDER. Surprising huh?

What if the Asian female in question is in a University where she is living in a dorm or  in an apartment. How are her parents going to forbid her from doing that?

My reasoning is that Asian parents know in the back of their minds that their kids are probably sleeping with the opposite sex in college, but all they can really do is to educate them.


What are your guy's insight on this matter? Personal experiences?

[Teru]

"Asian culture"

[Symphonyâ„¢]

I thought that was most cultures?

[gayness]

are u non asian?

[atlantica]

I thought that was most cultures?

for 18+? lmao

[Cinnamon buns]

I'm pretty sure some still do it anyways like how some people still drink before 21 in America.

[miwa201]

Asia is a huge continent. It's not a monolith. There is no such thing as "Asian culture".

[geek]

not only in "asian culture"...

[Symphonyâ„¢]

for 18+? lmao

Depends on the parent.

[PerfectOppa]

As long as you're over 18 years old cause sex is gonna happen si o si. Here, girls under 18 are having sleepovers with their boyfriends all tha time.

[SourKeys]

Asia is a huge continent. It's not a monolith. There is no such thing as "Asian culture".

And I think this is for all cultures anyway o_O

[timpa]

What if the Asian female in question is in a University where she is living in a dorm or  in an apartment. How are her parents going to forbid her from doing that?

 

 

It doesn't matter if they're Asian or not. A parent can forbid their child from whatever they feel like. You don't think non-Asian parents forbid their children from doing things?

[Baekslave]

I thought this was normal for the world over. But 18+ is a little over the top. In my country it's more issues like that when the girl is 15-16.

[Miss Fei]

In most cultures it's like that...

[Amaka~]

Lot's of people have rules like that regardless if they are "asian" or not. I'm Nigerian and I wasn't even allowed to sleepover at a girl's house until I was 15.....let alone a boy's even now. lol

[Gloupsidou]

"Asian culture"

[Pink Shadow]

Im a gypsy, and we came from india but yeah you`re not allowed to do that until ur married. Srsly i cant even THINK about sleeping over at any boys house. tho ill be living alone starting sept, they still tell me i better not even try to sleep at a boys house or invote boys over ._. mom said she`ll install cameras all over my house ;_; she better not

[Meiqi's Maid]

Its not because theyre Asian, its like that in other countries too... It just depends how strict their parents are.

[aripod]

What if the Asian female in question is in a University where she is living in a dorm or  in an apartment. How are her parents going to forbid her from doing that?

 

 

It doesn't matter if they're Asian or not. A parent can forbid their child from whatever they feel like. You don't think non-Asian parents forbid their children from doing things?

 

I think what they meant is how are the parents going to know if they do or not? It's all up to the child to adhere to their rules even if they already put them in place.

 

The OP could have been written better, but I see where they are coming from. I think it depends on the individual kid because if you're brought up listening to your parents you will probably listen to them in that situation and if you're used to being a rebel you probably won't.

[Yoon Mi Rae]

O k but it's sort of like that in most countries and cultures.

 

Also Asian is the biggest continent so how do you say all the countries within that continent has one culture. 

[seoul]

Well I'm Korean and my mom will never let me sleep over friends houses (even if its a girl) because she's scared their will be boys..

But she lets my older brother do sleep overs all he wants. 

The only time I remember she let me have a sleepover was 5 years ago at a friend's house and that was only because she knew her parents very well.

[bananabrows]

i dont think that's weird...

[Nini Bear]

I thought that was most cultures?

Not here...   Even parents of 13 year olds allow the boyfriend or girlfriend to sleep over. Then there's also parents of 18 year olds that don't want it, but generally, older than that, they really don't give a shit rofl...

 

But eh, doesn't Asia have like, idk how many cultures?

[GratedCheese]

Coming from an Asian background, I really think it's dependent on the parents. Some parents are open, some are not. In my culture, although we are 18+, we are still relatively well monitored by our parents. Most people stay with their parents until marriage / leave to university, at least that's in my society. 

 

And yes, as others have stated, there's no 'one' asian background.

[Good People]

It is like that in every country. It is considered respectable to stay in your own home until marriage. A lot of people sleep over at bf's houses or move in with them. But that is not done by "higher class" people, and royalty etc. So you could say it is now a "commoner" activity but frowned upon in higher society.