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So if someone asks you to hang out, but it's obviously a date even though they didn't word it like that, is it rude to say you're not interested in dating? Because you're in fact jumping to conclusions and it may sound cocky. 

 

I can't keep telling them I'm busy for weeks straight cause it's obviously a lie and I don't want to give them hope. I feel like I can't simply reject them if they're not straight to the point. 

 

What would you do in such a situation?

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I've been in this spot not long ago and trust me, be straightforward and ask what their intentions are, and then reject it whatever they answer (they might lie so dont get caught up). Also has this person been asking you multiple times ? Cause when you get rejected once you usually don't ask again, so if they did they might be the clingy type, dont be afraid and say NO.

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maybe ask them if it's a date or not? or try to indirectly friendzone them 

 

I also think you should ask if it's date. If it is then let them know you're not interested

 

Idk if it's rude to assume they want to date me lol I've thought about it, but I'm fcking awkward

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Idk if it's rude to assume they want to date me lol I've thought about it, but I'm fcking awkward

 

halkfjgdlfk rip

 

maybe just casually friendzone them [2], like keep on saying "we're great as friends" "it's so nice to be your friend" and maybe they'll take a hint?

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I've been in this spot not long ago and trust me, be straightforward and ask what their intentions are, and then reject it whatever they answer (they might lie so dont get caught up). Also has this person been asking you multiple times ? Cause when you get rejected once you usually don't ask again, so if they did they might be the clingy type, dont be afraid and say NO.

 

I rejected this person years ago and afterwards we didn't keep contact. But they started speaking to me again and right away asked me if I wanted to hang out. That's why I know they don't only want to hang out as friends. But I had other similar cases before.

 

I'm like always afraid I come across as rude. I'm the least assertive person in the world. But I guess making them tell me what their true intentions are is something I should do ;')

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ask him/her if you can bring a friend along, if that person says no then ask if it's a date

I did think of this, but I was afraid he would say yes because I don't know anyone who would want to join us lolol

 

halkfjgdlfk rip

 

maybe just casually friendzone them [2], like keep on saying "we're great as friends" "it's so nice to be your friend" and maybe they'll take a hint?

We're not friends OTL (I have tried this with another person before tho loooool)

 

Nah, it's not. It's just a question 

Okay, guess I should do it za5g21G.png

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I did think of this, but I was afraid he would say yes because I don't know anyone who would want to join us lolol

 

We're not friends OTL (I have tried this with another person before tho loooool)

 

Okay, guess I should do it za5g21G.png

 

oh rip aslfjgkldfg

 

then yup good luck rlytearpls.png

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oh rip aslfjgkldfg

 

then yup good luck rlytearpls.png

 

Thank youuuuu

 

on the bright side, we're not friends so I don't really care if I'll never see him again ohla.png

Yeah in these cases it's best to be honest

 

thanks for the advice ;')

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I've been in this spot not long ago and trust me, be straightforward and ask what their intentions are, and then reject it whatever they answer (they might lie so dont get caught up). Also has this person been asking you multiple times ? Cause when you get rejected once you usually don't ask again, so if they did they might be the clingy type, dont be afraid and say NO.

Well said. Make them clarify.

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Ha I've been in this situation not that long ago and ... I lied.

 

He was like "I really want us to spend time together soon" "let's meet often" (we hadn't seen each other for almost a year before meeting by accident in the street) so I answered "aaaw I would like to but I'm not sure if my bf would be ok with me spending most of my days off with a guy other than him haha" (mind you I'm single) so he answered "oh I see, I wish you happiness" and never contacted me again... nice to see he simply wanted to be friends huh smile.png 

 

But I guess it might not work if you want to actually stay friend with him as that lie wouldn't last.

 

 

 

 

I felt guilty at first but then I learned that he was living with his girlfriend and invited girls over when she was at work (she works away all week and come back during the week ends from what I heard) idontthinksobetchplz.png I escaped a bullet.

 

 

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