My boyfriend said he wants to take me to Hawaii next summer when I'm free and wants to pay the trip ?

[Hormones]

He said he wants to do some mountain climbing and hiking and wants to take me to the beach and will pay for it, the only problem is that I don't think I can just tell my parents hey I'm going off to a vacation with some stranger for free of charge. What excuse do you think I can come up with to not make them doubt anything ? I'm usually a good liar to my parents about things but this..idk where to begin 

[Ice_]

Say to your bf to save the money instead of lying to your parents.

[hlynb93]

Introduce him to your parents as your boyfriend, let them get to know him and then tell them you are going on a holiday together, pretty simple.

[Hiroka]

If you’re over eighteen then why ask your parents for permission

[adda]

He said he wants to do some mountain climbing and hiking and wants to take me to the beach and will pay for it, the only problem is that I don't think I can just tell my parents hey I'm going off to a vacation with some stranger for free of charge. What excuse do you think I can come up with to not make them doubt anything ? I'm usually a good liar to my parents about things but this..idk where to begin 

 

are you feeling uncomfortable he wants to pay for everything or your concern is only your parents reaction? 

[Hormones]

Say to your bf to save the money instead of lying to your parents.

 

That kinda sucks tho :/ 

Introduce him to your parents as your boyfriend, let them get to know him and then tell them you are going on a holiday together, pretty simple.

 

Haha I'm not telling my parents I'm gay anytime soon.

If you’re over eighteen then why ask your parents for permission

I guess it's different for everyone. I still live under my parent's roof.

 

are you feeling uncomfortable he wants to pay for everything or your concern is only your parents reaction? 

My parents reaction. 

[HoneyPopCupcake]

How long have you been dating him? maybe it's time for him to meet the parents, I support that idea 

[_Lucy_]

tell them he is (just) your best friend and that you are just going on a trip together

[DC3]

tell them he is (just) your best friend and that you are just going on a trip together

^^^ this one seems good 

[Hormones]

How long have you been dating him? maybe it's time for him to meet the parents, I support that idea 

 

My parents are homophobic do you think I would ask this question if they weren't....not telling my parents gay never mind the boyfriend part mess....I want to be financially independent before i tell them

tell them he is (just) your best friend and that you are just going on a trip together

Mmm maybe that can work....mmm

[adda]

What excuse do you think I can come up with to not make them doubt anything ? I'm usually a good liar to my parents about things but this..idk where to begin 

 

introduce him to your parents as your friend. 

After a while,  when he won't be perceived as a stranger anymore,  tell them he invited you to Hawaii. 

you'll be staying to his relatives vacation home so you'll not have to pay for accommodation. 

since is a good occasion ( minimum expenses)  you really want to go. 

[Ego ista]

tell them he is (just) your best friend and that you are just going on a trip together

[Pinky Winky]

introduce him to your parents as your friend. 

After a while,  when he won't be perceived as a stranger anymore,  tell them he invited you to Hawaii. 

you'll be staying to his relatives vacation home so you'll not have to pay for accommodation. 

since is a good occasion ( minimum expenses)  you really want to go. 

 

I second this

[Róisín Dubh]

Sorry, this may be rather personal, but how long have you two been together? you know, it will be only you and him, far away from home for days, hiking in the mountain and stuff. Do you trust your boyfriend 100%? If the answer is yes, then tell your parents you'll go in a trip with friends from college or something.

[HoneyPopCupcake]

My parents are homophobic do you think I would ask this question if they weren't....not telling my parents gay never mind the boyfriend part mess....I want to be financially independent before i tell them

Mmm maybe that can work....mmm

I take it back then  didn't know they were homophobic. I guess the best friend thingy might work, you can tell em you're going with some other friends as well

[Hormones]

I take it back then  didn't know they were homophobic. I guess the best friend thingy might work, you can tell em you're going with some other friends as well

Haha mess thanks baby <3 it's no problem  

[Hormones]

Sorry, this may be rather personal, but how long have you two been together? you know, it will be only you and him, far away from home for days, hiking in the mountain and stuff. Do you trust your boyfriend 100%? If the answer is yes, then tell your parents you'll go in a trip with friends from college or something.

3 weeks right now but our chemistry really matches....maybe we're moving fast but we really like each other. I do trust 1000% in fact lmao. Thank you <3 

[HoneyPopCupcake]

Haha mess thanks baby <3 it's no problem

I hope it all works out well  let us know 

[金彩媛]

tell them you're going with friends

[hlynb93]

That kinda sucks tho :/ 

 

Haha I'm not telling my parents I'm gay anytime soon.

I guess it's different for everyone. I still live under my parent's roof.

 

My parents reaction. 

Okay gotchya, didn't know about the gay part, as others have said you can introduce him as a friend or you could get a couple of your friends to help you and tell your parents that you are going with a group rather than just the two of you so it doesn't seem too suspicious.

[gayness]

3 weeks right now but our chemistry really matches....maybe we're moving fast but we really like each other. I do trust 1000% in fact lmao. Thank you <3

NO.

[Kstarnet]

Just like what the others said, just introduce him as a friend and tell them that you're going for a trip

[Jcey]

NO.

This comment ..lol