Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 I don't have a lot of girl friends , it always end up in drama with them but its been a while since I've been bonding with this girl friend of mine who has earned my trust . Although I'm confident in my looks , my friend is waaay prettier and with better body ( at the moment ) . My boyfriend likes to stear the feminine beauty , when we are hanging out he just can't help to stare at every single girl, which it's ok for me , I don't care at all . BUT I'm not sure if I'll be as cool if he'd did that with a friend of mine ... A friend of mine ending up with one of my men is one of my biggest fears. I talked about it with my man and he said theres nothing to worry about , that he loves me and won't hurt me The thing is my friend is red headed and he has a thing for red headed girls ... Anyway I told them when should go to the movies but I have my doubts ... Should I cancel it or should I go on and get over it ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Le kwan 461 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 I don't have a lot of girl friends , it always end up in drama with them but its been a while since I've been bonding with this girl friend of mine who has earned my trust . Although I'm confident in my looks , my friend is waaay prettier and with better body ( at the moment ) . My boyfriend likes to stear the feminine beauty , when we are hanging out he just can't help to stare at every single girl, which it's ok for me , I don't care at all . BUT I'm not sure if I'll be as cool if he'd did that with a friend of mine ... A friend of mine ending up with one of my men is one of my biggest fears. I talked about it with my man and he said theres nothing to worry about , that he loves me and won't hurt me The thing is my friend is red headed and he has a thing for red headed girls ... Anyway I told them when should go to the movies but I have my doubts ... Should I cancel it or should I go on and get over it ? I know to each how they handle their relationships and that we all look sometimes but "every" girl DAMN. I mean does he do that in front of you and you're cool with it? Do you stare at every guy too? because this is confusing to me. I personally avoid guys that stare at girls a lot and from experience they're not good partners and they're more likely to be unfaithful, that's a pretty big red flag for me. The fact that you're insecure about him meeting your pretty friend who happens to be his type speaks volumes about trust in your relationship. If you're insecure about it don't do it. But I advice you to work on your confidence and trust in your relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby Pickle 3,725 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 No I think you should let them meet and also you should trust them. Hopefully if he truly loves you he won't do anything and neither will your friend hurt you. You shouldn't be feeling this insecure embrace your beauty child and be more confident. Also even though hopefully not if your boyfriend does something it's not your fault it's just his loss. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YoUr EyEs 873 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 No I think you should let them meet and also you should trust them. Hopefully if he truly loves you he won't do anything and neither will your friend hurt you. You shouldn't be feeling this insecure embrace your beauty child and be more confident. Also even though hopefully not if your boyfriend does something it's not your fault it's just his loss. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riserise 1,475 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 I think it's rude of your boyfriend to stare at women when you are there (and quite creepy if he keeps it up for so long). Of course everybody can look at attractive people from time to time, but continuously staring? No. I wouldn't introduce your boyfriend to her, since I would want to protect your friend from a creepy dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted November 5, 2018 Share Posted November 5, 2018 I wouldn't tolerate that. If he can't stop staring at women, then he should not be in a relationship. Its not a "normal" thing like so many believe, nor is it fair on the other person being stared at. Tell him to stop, and don't introduce your best friend to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 11, 2018 Share Posted November 11, 2018 He's definitely going to lust over her and is very common for people of your social circle to end up with someone you previously dated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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