Kami the II. 1,723 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 I'm having hard time shaving the ''tea spilling'' parts of my posts lately due to the 68 official & many non-official friends I made on OH. Whenever I feel like posting a not so well accepted opinion about an idol, I always think if I have a chingu whose bias is that idol. I don't want to hurt ma chingus but at the same time, it's painful to suppress the impulse to post what exactly I have in my mind... This happened twice in a row with ma dearest HoneyPopCupcake eonnie & I feel guilty for being honest about ha biases now. Mianhae eonnie, Kami will try her best to love your biases just like how she loves cupcakes... But the question is: When a nice OH'er with bad taste on biases comes out, should Kami keep distant from them? Or is Kami being too naive? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs.otter 8,299 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Idk but Kami is so cute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Just say whatever you want, if they start disliking you just because you have a different opinion then they weren't your friends anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sakura Sunshine 1,472 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 'When a nice OH'er with bad taste on biases comes out, should Kami keep distant from them?' No. You should keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami the II. 1,723 Posted October 24, 2018 Author Share Posted October 24, 2018 Just say whatever you want, if they start disliking you just because you have a different opinion then they weren't your friends anyway It's not about them starting to dislike me after a negative comment but me not wanting to hurt their feelings. It's not a nice to see a chingu talking bad about ma Suzy & I'm sure me being too honest about their biases makes them feel that way too... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
namidaone 1,420 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Place urself in ur chingu's shoes. If ur chingu thinks u have bad taste for stanning Suzy, should they suppress their impulse to bash her coz ur their chingu? or should they embrace their inner troll and bash her to their heart's content? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami the II. 1,723 Posted October 24, 2018 Author Share Posted October 24, 2018 Place urself in ur chingu's shoes. If ur chingu thinks u have bad taste for stanning Suzy, should they suppress their impulse to bash her coz ur their chingu? or should they embrace their inner troll and bash her to their heart's content? I'd be OK with them using sarcasm to shade ma Suzy. But them bashing her in an aggressive/passive-aggressive way would hurt my feelings... I usually stick with the first choice to satisfy my inner troll, so should I feel free to do that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
namidaone 1,420 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 I'd be OK with them using sarcasm to shade ma Suzy. But them bashing her in an aggressive/passive-aggressive way would hurt my feelings... I usually stick with the first choice to satisfy my inner troll, so should I feel free to do that? U always have the right to express urself same as ur chingu and everyone in this forum (as long as it's not against the forum rules). Just warn ur other bad-taste-chingus in advance tho. And also be prepared if ur chingu bashes ur bias harder than when u bashed theirs bc all is fair in love and fanwar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyPopCupcake 2,421 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Gurl, I have not seen this thread until now & I'm not upset about it. It's just not right writing offensive stuff towards idols in general. It's ok if you don't like them, there's a ton of idols I'm not a fan of, but I just think it's better to focus on appreciating the ones you like. That said, I still think you're really sweet and it's probably that phase where you wanna write first thing that comes to mind. You don't have to love them, just don't use mean words because it triggers my inner ''must protecc'' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,518 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Gurl, I have not seen this thread until now & I'm not upset about it. It's just not right writing offensive stuff towards idols in general. It's ok if you don't like them, there's a ton of idols I'm not a fan of, but I just think it's better to focus on appreciating the ones you like. That said, I still think you're really sweet and it's probably that phase where you wanna write first thing that comes to mind. You don't have to love them, just don't use mean words because it triggers my inner ''must protecc'' I go along with HoneyPopCupcake. If you don't enjoy someone it doesn't mean you have to hack at them. It makes for a vicious cycle of bashes on everyones faves. I think that it is easy to praise your faves and it is much more enjoyable in the long run young Kami2. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami the II. 1,723 Posted October 24, 2018 Author Share Posted October 24, 2018 Gurl, I have not seen this thread until now & I'm not upset about it. It's just not right writing offensive stuff towards idols in general. It's ok if you don't like them, there's a ton of idols I'm not a fan of, but I just think it's better to focus on appreciating the ones you like. That said, I still think you're really sweet and it's probably that phase where you wanna write first thing that comes to mind. You don't have to love them, just don't use mean words because it triggers my inner ''must protecc'' Relatable I'll try to hold my fingers from posting nasty stuff... I go along with HoneyPopCupcake. If you don't enjoy someone it doesn't mean you have to hack at them. It makes for a vicious cycle of bashes on everyones faves. I think that it is easy to praise your faves and it is much more enjoyable in the long run young Kami2. I don't know what excuse will save me a few years later when I won't be that young anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyPopCupcake 2,421 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Relatable I'll try to hold my fingers from posting nasty stuff... I don't know what excuse will save me a few years later when I won't be that young anymore Don't worry Kami, I actually thought it was sweet you posted this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,518 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 I don't know what excuse will save me a few years later when I won't be that young anymore Then youth no longer excuses your actions and you are just a pain in the neck like the rest of us "adults". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami the II. 1,723 Posted October 24, 2018 Author Share Posted October 24, 2018 Then youth no longer excuses your actions and you are just a pain in the neck like the rest of us "adults". I might use the ''language barrier causing misunderstandings'' one, uwu But I hope to start being more mature by the time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,518 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 I might use the ''language barrier causing misunderstandings'' one, uwu But I hope to start being more mature by the time... Nobody says you have to be mature, I know I fall short in that often. I am part of "us adults" as well and can be a problem as much as any. I wasn't always giving others what I wanted to be given when I was younger. I am sorry for many things I said and did then. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deobizone 7,779 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Idk but Kami is so cute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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