katz 296 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Mine is that they'll find someone better and break up with me. I don't want to come across as clingy, but I kinda feel like they can do better at times..so it makes me insecure, which makes me feel worse, for even questioning why they are with me to begin with... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaeyeonHK 4,444 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Hmm maybe that I'll like them more than they like me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaengTaengoo 1,924 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 That is a big worry. Id agree that type of thing should it ever occur would leave deep scars behind... thing is you have to hope you saw enough good in your partner to know they wouldn't do something like that to you i guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Celeste 2,261 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 same as yours op Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PALEMOCHI 3,696 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 i'm scared a friend will try and steal whoever i date again that happend two years ago to me but now i wanna make that fear go away and get back out there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
High Fructose Yoongi Syrup 7,149 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 cheating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Midna 2,032 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 same as OP being cheated on. being controlled. i cant deal with that business tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creampuff 5,745 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Mine is that I'll fall in love only to be hurt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoDesu 52 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 I try so hard that I scare him off. That, and not being accepted on how weird i am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡LINUS 3,052 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 become boring, not exciting anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethnic Pop 3,166 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Mine is that they'll find someone better and break up with me. I don't want to come across as clingy, but I kinda feel like they can do better at times..so it makes me insecure, which makes me feel worse, for even questioning why they are with me to begin with... Cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isolated 1,353 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Cheating, back stabbing, betrayal anything of that sort, being used would prob be #1 though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glou 2,430 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Not being in love, not loving him enough. Being left alone, him leaving me. Being with someone manipulative, someone who plays with my feelings. Not being loved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ehmy 1,931 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Mine is that I'll be with someone and miss someone better. That's a horrible way to think. I know. This is why I don't do relationships at the moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dove galaxy 155 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fgt 1,210 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 trust being cheated on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katz 296 Posted May 31, 2014 Author Share Posted May 31, 2014 I try so hard that I scare him off. That, and not being accepted on how weird i am. I get that. I'm a bit awkward myself and I've had guys I liked before tell me they thought I was weird....bit of a slap in the face tbh. I'm not (truly) trying to be like that...but I get easily flustered and I suck at hiding it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zaddd3 1,801 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Same as OP. And being cheated on. It's happened before and I don't think there is a worse feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geuraewolf 24 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Compatibility Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arietta 789 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Being in an abusive relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coccuri 275 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Getting bored of each other. Losing that 'spark,' as some people call it. I guess in some cases, that is what leads to cheating? But I fear losing the 'spark' more than cheating itself. I guess my concern is not that we make connections with other people, but that our own connection disintegrates. It's like...if my partner or I myself become interested in somebody elese, then fine. But if we drift apart on our own, then it is kind of disheartening that we turned out that way. This is hard for me to explain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Legacy1223 1,617 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Eh. Not much of a fear, but my biggest concern is that I'll lose interest and stop giving a fuck after we've fucked a few times. May sound like an asshole(I am lol ^_^), but I'd rather not use a girl for sex, which is why I'm extremely cautious about who I date, because they could be invested into it way more than me and they would hurt them and I don't wanna do that. I'm an honest person, I tell a girl in the best way I can that if I'm not up for a relationship then I can't do it. Better to waste your time with someone that'll care for you as much as you care for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seulo 4,828 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 Cheating. Being in an abusive relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ohsogrey 474 Posted May 31, 2014 Share Posted May 31, 2014 That they'll kill me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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