My friend slapped his girlfriend, but he threatened me too and im scared WHAT DO I DO??

[TWICEs Fairy Godmother]

this is consistent too, he beats her all the time. i always threaten to call the cops but he says he said sorry to her and bought her stuff.

 

just last week he punched her, i picked up the phone to dial 000 but he slapped the phone out of my hand and threatened me!!! he said, "don't u fucking dare slut, i'll kill you"

 

i literally ran out of there and left the building i was balling my eyes out

 

WHAT DO I DO??

[BBIIBBII]

It's not your place. Sit down and tell her it's time to open up to either authorities or someone trustworthy like a parent.

[Ego ista]

Try to convince her to tell the police first if not then I think you should say something too

[TWICEs Fairy Godmother]

It's not your place. Sit down and tell her it's time to open up to either authorities or someone trustworthy like a parent.

But I'm scared something will happen to her, like he'll snap one day and I had the chance to help her but I didn't take it.

Try to convince her to tell the police first if not then I think you should say something too

^^^

[RiseLikeACrowTit]

Make sure you'r safe in the first place, he seems a violent person and a dangerous one too, try to talk this with someone mutual in real life, maybe someone who's this girl's friend or family; but remember you can't do uch int he first place if you'r not safe yourself

[Usagi.]

People usually say that we shouldn't get in the middle of couples fighting but that's one of the reasons why this kind of scumbags think they can act like that so i wpuld tell someone, also.... he threatened you and you should tell someone for your own safety, try to tell your parents or something if you are too young.

[sparkle dust]

Don't get your self involved too seriously in this and report this to the authorities, I read a story just the other day of an abusive boyfriend attacking a friend of the abused because she was trying to help (she was sheltering her abused friend in her house and didnt call the cops because her friend didnt want her to). It ended in the guy dead, the friend a murderer and a whole mess of a situation

[Shalnark]

Can you contact her family?, if you can tell them about the situation. If you interfere directly, you are going to put yourself in danger too tbh, but if you can't contact them try talking to her.

 

I was in a similar situation but he had the mentality of being able to abuse his girlfriend, but not me because I was his friend so I was able to help her when she dumped him.

[honeyhoney]

As far as you, I would take action for him threatening me. As far as your friend, if she doesn't have a problem with it or she isn't trying to leave the situation, I don't think there's anything you can really do.

[Ice_]

Is this the same guy with your close friend yesterday?

 

About this abuse thing, first of all you should talk with his gf first. If she thinks "he did that cause i literally on fault and it's okay", time for you to get out of their watch cause it's just wasting your time.

 

If the girl knows he is wrong but she is scared of what happens in the future, time for you to encourage her to report this to authority. And leave the relationship immediately. If you can , ask for restraining order but then this one is gonna take lots of time.

 

And if the girl lives with his bf atm, time for her to leave that house and find her a new place to live for a moment. Maybe her parent's house if it's not too far cause that is the safest place to her for sure.

 

Cheers mate!

[Polaris_Tae]

If he's threatening you as well (and you have substantial evidence - e.g. recordings, texts, etc.) you should be able to take action against the threats made about you (call the cops). As for your friend she should talk to someone who can put into perspective that the way she is being treated is not what should normally happen between couples.