Can mom stop being judgemental?

[Kstarnet]

I came back from Winner concert. My mom who thought that this concert is a scam, sit down and wanted me to let her know the details.

 

I asked her on promise me something which tells her not to be judgemental when I showed it to her. Instead of agreeing to this, she goes nuts and demanded to let her know the singer and show her the photos.

 

That scared me not to show her anymore. That nailed the final coffin that she is a judgemental homophobic freak.

 

 

[Mingyu's Blue Hair]

Thats why I never talk about Kpop with my mother. Because she will say "They look like woman. They are ugly. They are wearing makeup." And when I went Victon concert I said it is free. Because she is very stingy.

[Kstarnet]

Thats why I never talk about Kpop with my mother. Because she will say "They look like woman. They are ugly. They are wearing makeup." And when I went Victon cof oncert I said it is free. Because she is very stingy.

My mom would say that all of them have plastic surgery even if they don't.

 

I guess I can only share Kpop stuffs to here and my certain friends

[Kami the II.]

My homophobic mum asked me if Jinwoo was gay & I said I don't know. She called me a liar & said I should be ashamed of myself for following such ppl. You are not alone...

 

But still, don't let it shadow your enjoyment during the concert. It's once in a lifetime experience so spend your time worthfully...

[Nimz]

I just never tell my parents about kpop. I already hear about the "gay Asian kids" every time BTS is at an awards show.

[Kstarnet]

My homophobic mum asked me if Jinwoo was gay & I said I don't know. She called me a liar & said I should be ashamed of myself for following such ppl. You are not alone...

 

But still, don't let it shadow your enjoyment during the concert. It's once in a lifetime experience so spend your time worthfully...

Thanks for your virtual hug. I can never fathom why some people thought that those people with that kind of visuals are gay.

 

Instead of doing research, they chose to believe even with all the facts plaster around them

 

Hugs to you, Kami the II

 

I just never tell my parents about kpop. I already hear about the "gay Asian kids" every time BTS is at an awards show.

I can almost hear my mom said plastic surgery whenever they were showed on tv.

[<Taesthetic>]

gurl!!!!! gays are fabulous, I would've said yes mom they're crazy rich gay asians so deal with it.

[Mingyu's Blue Hair]

My mom would say that all of them have plastic surgery even if they don't.

 

I guess I can only share Kpop stuffs to here and my certain friends

One time I showed my mother to this gif of Mingyu:

 

And she said "she looks like a girl."

I was like "isn't Mingyu's mansae era styling most manliest look of him" And I said "Yeah mom, my bff ... likes him so much. Can you belive it. Everybody find him so handsome and go crazy for him. "

 

One day I showed her to this photo:

And she said he is average. Is she serious? And we are living in Turkey.

 

But last month she saw me when I was looking this photo:

And she said "he is amazingly handsome, who is he, show me." And I hide it immediatly. She begged me 1-2 days because she was so curious. She was nearly close to crying when she was begging LOL.

 

Actually there is no person in my real life to talk about Mingyu. I love him so much and I want to talk about him with someone. But if they will say bad things about things that I loved it will makes me really sad. And I am seeing it as a insult to my tastes. So I have no courage to talk about him.

[Kstarnet]

One time I showed my mother to this gif of Mingyu:

 

And she said "she looks like a girl."

I was like "isn't Mingyu's mansae era styling most manliest look of him" And I said "Yeah mom, my bff ... likes him so much. Can you belive it. Everybody find him so handsome and go crazy for him. "

 

One day I showed her to this photo:

And she said he is average. Is she serious? And we are living in Turkey.

 

But last month she saw me when I was looking this photo:

And she said he is amazingly handsome, who is he, show me. And I hide it immediatly. She begged me 1-2 days because she was so curious. She was nearly close to crying when she was begging LOL.

 

Actually there is no person in my real life to talk about Mingyu. I love him so much and I want to talk about him with someone. But if they will say bad things about things that I loved it will makes me really sad. And I am seeing it as a insult to my tastes. So I have no courage to talk about him.

True, I always want to talk to my mom about Kpop but with her character like this, better not.

 

For the concert, do you use your own money or your mom's?

[Mingyu's Blue Hair]

True, I always want to talk to my mom about Kpop but with her character like this, better not.

 

For the concert, do you use your own money or your mom's?

I used my own money. When they announced they will have a concert I was searching for a job for 6 month and I got really sad because I had no money. Last month I found a job and then I bought the ticket. It was a really beautiful gift for me. But I still say my mother it was because she even try to control my own money.

[Kstarnet]

I used my own money. When they announced they will have a concert I was searching for a job for 6 month and I got really sad because I had no money. Last month I found a job and then I bought the ticket. It was a really beautiful gift for me. But I still say my mother it was because she even try to control my own money.

Same to me. I used my own savings to buy the ticket and my mom goes nuts when I revealed it to her.

 

I bet that she rather let me locked up and tortured in a seminar that she paid for hours than let me enjoy my hard earn cash in a two hour concert