YNRA 1,082 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 So I'm a college student, I started hanging out with a new group of friends this year. All my friends last year are gone so these new friends are all I have and it's just not easy making new friends here because of my position. We usually eat together and we tend to spend several hours a day together. I'm starting to feel like one of these friends is really getting tired of me because it's usually just us two doing things together when the others are busy and I feel like she secretly hates spending so much time with me even though she is the one who introduced me to the group and shes the only one i have classes with Even in class she doesnt sit with me, which used to bother me but I'm ok with it now because i know lots of people in class But I'm just feeling like because i see her every day its hurting our friendship and shes tired of hanging out with me. What is your advice? Should I try to distance myself from her ? Like maybe instead of seeing eachother daily just limit it to 2 times a week or something I really like her as a friend but her enthusiasm goes down when I'm thr only one there and she kinda ignores me sometimes. Or should i be honest with her or just find new friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmlve 1,185 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 talk to her about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessinwonderland 1,844 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Don't go to her let her come to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YourOppasLookUp2Mine 699 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 If you truly consider her a friend, you should be able to talk about the way you feel. If I noticed a friend of mine purposely ignoring me, I'd call him/her out on it and ask wtf's up with them. Friends should be able to talk about these things openly, don't you think? I'm not saying friends don't get annoying at times (frankly, they're the most annoying cuz they're always around lol) but to ignore someone on purpose is just wrong and not worth being called a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
honeyhoney 153 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Talk about it. You might be right or wrong. Find out her POV. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted October 11, 2018 Author Share Posted October 11, 2018 If you truly consider her a friend, you should be able to talk about the way you feel. If I noticed a friend of mine purposely ignoring me, I'd call him/her out on it and ask wtf's up with them. Friends should be able to talk about these things openly, don't you think? I'm not saying friends don't get annoying at times (frankly, they're the most annoying cuz they're always around lol) but to ignore someone on purpose is just wrong and not worth being called a friend. I mean i have talked to her about it and i truly dont think she is being malicious or doing it on purpose I said it in a joking way but i did bring up that when she does it its hurtful But i do really feel like maybe I'm annoying and she just wants to spend time with other people but she invites me to stuff because I told her to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 So I'm a college student, I started hanging out with a new group of friends this year. All my friends last year are gone so these new friends are all I have and it's just not easy making new friends here because of my position. We usually eat together and we tend to spend several hours a day together. I'm starting to feel like one of these friends is really getting tired of me because it's usually just us two doing things together when the others are busy and I feel like she secretly hates spending so much time with me even though she is the one who introduced me to the group and shes the only one i have classes with Even in class she doesnt sit with me, which used to bother me but I'm ok with it now because i know lots of people in class But I'm just feeling like because i see her every day its hurting our friendship and shes tired of hanging out with me. What is your advice? Should I try to distance myself from her ? Like maybe instead of seeing eachother daily just limit it to 2 times a week or something I really like her as a friend but her enthusiasm goes down when I'm thr only one there and she kinda ignores me sometimes. Or should i be honest with her or just find new friends Try to expand your circle of friends, find a fucking show that one of those humans watch, mimic their behaviour and leech them for college proposes lmao!!!; I work at costum service, I truly don't understand why do you want to expend time with another mamal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YourOppasLookUp2Mine 699 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Try to expand your circle of friends, find a fucking show that one of those humans watch, mimic their behaviour and leech them for college proposes lmao!!!; I work at costum service, I truly don't understand why do you want to expend time with another mamal Bruh, the customer service part got me. You're my new spirit animal. Humans can be such trash. I'm trying to limit my interactions on the daily during work hours cuz people are just SO DELUSIONAL AND IGNORANT. And too lazy to use goddamn google. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Bruh, the customer service part got me. You're my new spirit animal. Humans can be such trash. I'm trying to limit my interactions on the daily during work hours cuz people are just SO DELUSIONAL AND IGNORANT. And too lazy to use goddamn google. Come at me ; at times I throw randoms "I need to use the bathroom" and I try to breath and not lose sanity, people is garbage and will not see you as a human, neither will hold their ignorance....... I don't care about your life lady, just keep your crazy batshit conception of the word to yourself and buy my shit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YourOppasLookUp2Mine 699 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Come at me ; at times I throw randoms "I need to use the bathroom" and I try to breath and not lose sanity, people is garbage and will not see you as a human, neither will hold their ignorance....... I don't care about your life lady, just keep your crazy batshit conception of the word to yourself and buy my shit I don't exactly sell shit (thank god, that'd be even worse!), but I work for a huge beverage company and people legit call for the dumbest shit: "Why don't you make a drink that tastes like cannabis? Everyone already knows you're putting cocain in your shit." And I just facepalm, counting my brain cells in fear of losing them. But we're getting off topic, apologies OP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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