love 8,778 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 in your own personal opinion... obviously every person and situation is different, but for me it's a minimum of 3-4 years, especially since i'm still quite young. what do you guys think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramkissoon 1,055 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 hard to say. I don't think you can really give a specific number. I know someone who dated for 6 months and got married. and still happy together after several years. And another who was dating and living with their BF for 5 years. got married. but now divorced. it's probably more important to be sure you are marrying the right person than the amount of time you know each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 10 years in max Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pseudo 1,135 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 At my age, I think 2 years is long enough. A few of my peers have already decided to engage their current partner long before that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ddeona Oneul Bame 61,630 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 A few years. 2-3. I don't think 1 year is enough time to really know someone that well~ My dad just married his new wife after about a year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FriedChicken 55 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 2years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 5 and id have to live with them for atleast 2 of those Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
U R Messy AF 7,087 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 Personally, I'd want to wait at least a year; and we'd have to actually work out all our baggage and seriously discuss things before moving forward, but everyone's case is different. hard to say. I don't think you can really give a specific number. I know someone who dated for 6 months and got married. and still happy together after several years. And another who was dating and living with their BF for 5 years. got married. but now divorced. it's probably more important to be sure you are marrying the right person than the amount of time you know each other. ∧ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Ayy Big Gay 8,172 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 Min 2 years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
love&pink 2,580 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 Idk people are different.... ideally i want to say 3 years tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,520 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 There is no set time. My grandparents dated only a short time and were together for 57 years. I know two who dated 3 years and then got married and divorced within 1 year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starsocks 7,986 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 For me personally, it would have to be two years at the very least, but probably more like three to five years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silver¥Light 173 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 At least 2yrs. You don't really get to know a person in a few months of dating. Plus, I feel like the first yr would be when one acts his/her best. More than that would be when the person has the mindset of dating to get married. But I think age is more important rather than how long the dating period is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutroTear 1,189 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 For me, I would want to date for three years. Also, I would want to live together for a year before we get married. But, it really depends on the relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingloey 1,521 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 For me, min 4 years(?. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
à travers ciel 526 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 Minimum of one year. I know of couples that were together months before marrying and made it longer than those together for a year or several years. But I still think waiting at least a year is best. Unless you have a very good reason to marry before then one year mark, why rush it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T R O L L A R C H 20 Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 All of you guys have some good answers. I've never really thought about this question before. I think you and your date should be financially stable first to even think about marriage. Of course, you must strengthen your relationship with each other by knowing everything about each other as well, but if they're the best person in the world and y'all are living together but he/she can't help pay for the living expenses at an apartment/house, I think you should probably reconsider your options until he/she gets a job that can help pay. Otherwise, if you both are financially stable, let's say right around when you first start dating, I'd give about 2-3 years before marriage to figure out who and how he/she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 i would say at least 3 years normally but it really depends on the couple. also that you lived together for some time and is both financially stable my sister and her husband got married within a year of dating but she seems happy and the guy is nice compared to all the other guys she dated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxwell 10 Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 Really depends on a whole bunch of factors. I think the older you are and the more experience you have dating in general, the less time you really need to know if this person is the one or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tohogirl5 895 Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 It depends, like for example if both of them are students then it'll definitely take longer than a couple that have solid jobs. But i'd live first with him and then marry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iJungwha 1,120 Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 Depends. I know a couple that got married after only 6 months of dating and they've been together for 25 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brume 693 Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 1-2 years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeeYaWithYou 4,415 Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 idk about dating, but I think they should live together for at least a year first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaweedsoup 5 Posted October 9, 2018 Share Posted October 9, 2018 I feel like a couple of years minimum, but personally I'd rather many more years. Maybe even up to a decade before I'd marry someone, although that might be because I'm not sure I even want to marry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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