oye123 1,615 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I am lost So I wonder how do you guys find passion and meaning into propelling your life to go on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Yotsubato~ 3,849 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Ask questions and try to find answers, either on your own or with others to help you along the way. Reading books from various authors also helps, gives you perspective that you didn't have before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Celeste 2,261 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Try diff things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunface 3,496 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 awww *hugs* love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I fap and then I think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oye123 1,615 Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 Ask questions and try to find answers, either on your own or with others to help you along the way. Reading books from various authors also helps, gives you perspective that you didn't have before. what if all of that has been tried but it didnt work? what do you resort to next? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oye123 1,615 Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 awww *hugs* love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
campfire 5,083 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 A blackjack I follow was diagnosed with stage 3 leukaemia today and it terrifies the shit out of me that that could happen to any of us at any moment so I guess I just try to do everything I hope to and not dwell on the negative. Find something that you enjoy even a little bit and see where it takes you. Don't think about the future. Take each day at a time. Fighting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KJJ 1,155 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Eat, Pray. Love. No, seriously now. Meditate, read, listen to music, write. Writing about everything that goes trough your mind really helps a lot. Write and reflect on what's inside your head. Also, smile. Even though you don't feel like smiling, do it. For around a minute. Then you'll see how your mood becomes better, and with better mood there come better visions about your life. Think about good things that happened to you. Dream. Dream alot about what you want to become/have. Have hope. Have feith. Even though you don't feel like having feith, hoping, living your life, make yourself believe the opposite. Also, don't forget that around you are a lot of people that care for you and love you, so that should be the main reason for wanting your life to go on. Be strong, oye123! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Yotsubato~ 3,849 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 what if all of that has been tried but it didnt work? what do you resort to next? Just take it slowly step by step. Don't focus on the future too much if you cant handle it at the moment. Focus on today, now. After work go explore the city, see what it has to offer that you haven't seen before. Do something outside your comfort zone, If you don't play video games try one (I recommend Mass Effect), If you don't enjoy heights that much go to a theme park and try a few scary rides to get your blood pumping. Most importantly don't loose hope. Keep on talking to people until you figure this shit out. I am here if you want to talk and you like hearing bullshit. I am a master of it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinInsideMyTonic 50 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I guess that in this case the most important thing is to understand first why you feel this way: has something happened to you? A love story gone wrong, a problem in your family, school or elsewhere that made you lose your faith/hope in life? And if this is the case, why? (Of course I don't want you to answer to these questions here, they're only suggestions ) Try to knot yourself more, investigate yourself, find what moves you and what makes or would make you happy.. But never stop hoping and fighting, remember that YOU are the most important thing and the first reason for you to get up everyday and make something good out of you life *sends big big hug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Ask yourself what do you like of this life, and what would you like to achieve, and weight for it; Oh and it's always a thing not a person that will drive you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remus 1,775 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Psychoactive drugs. Deep mediation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mika613 843 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Figure out what you want to do by self-reflecting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABOGIRL 5,414 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 by making goals that don't centre around yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrostedFlakesSaram 107 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I find passion in learning languages. You should find something you like to do and use it to help others ^-^ Then you will feel fulfilled <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nhip 2,137 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 sometimes i run away from my problems and feel bad for doing so. but feeling bad makes me realize that i have to try harder to make myself happy and confident. i look at other people doing what they love or being happy with the way things are even when they lead such a simple life. i admire people like this and respect them. i think that everyone has the potential to be happy as well and try to stay optimistic. just because you reached a certain age does not mean you have to have all answers. "how many years do you have ahead of you? the state you're in at the moment does not have to last forever." is what i often tell myself. i also think that enjoying life has a lot to do with accepting yourself... that's my experience with lack of motivation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wuyifan-galaxy 86 Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 Live for the betterment of society. I don't mind not getting married or having kids. Most people won't understand that. But I'm satisfied knowing I will dedicate myself to a job that directly helps others using my knowledge and experience in the field. Makes up for the shitty jobs other people do. I also find Carl Sagan to be helpful. The first few minutes of the first episode of his 'Cosmos' series is enough to get me up again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bananabrows 2,169 Posted June 11, 2014 Share Posted June 11, 2014 i think of life as a collective bunch of big (ex: finishing school) and little (ex: getting through finals week) projects there's always a next step because there's always room for self-improvement you just have to invest your time in something you find worthwhile or interesting dont rely on routines and expose yourself to new things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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