EasySteezy 860 Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 So there's this super hot guy right? A BUNCH of followers on insta. We met on tinder a year ago, but he didn't meet up with me because he didn't like my "party girl" lifestyle at the time. Now I've calmed down a lot and started focusing on my health and am in a relationship that's a little shaky right now. My bf is EXTREMELY hard headed and has to be right about everything. Anyways super hot guy is messaging me now. Wants to have lunch. I THINK he knows about my bf. I'm feeling really weird about it though, because since he bailed on me for my lifestyle choices I insta stalked him like crazy. I feel attracted to him where like a month ago in my relationship I only had eyes for my man, but now they are starting to wander, and I'm starting to reply to the guys that are in my inbox. I feel really bad. But like I don't even think my bf is that attracted to my body type which is confusing to me. I'm skinny and have a great waist to hip to chest ratio. but all he does on insta is like girls with wider waists (not like in an overweight way, but like in a more masculine way) and girls who don't wear makeup and seem a little aged by the sun. Not hating on them, but by societal standards I have a good body, but he never compliments my appearance. like. ever. except for when we would get high early in the relationship. Closest I got to it was recently he said I have an advantage in life by "winning the genetic lottery" by being attractive. the hot guy compliments me and we are having deep convos. I know it's trouble, but my bf and I almost broke up twice recently and I'm starting to feel like it's a sinking ship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bronx. 2,763 Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Micah Bell 567 Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 It sounds like your boyfriend's gay. jk jk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oh_My_Jihyo 1,316 Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 Stan Carrie Underwood Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leicester 3,853 Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 If I was in your situation, I'd break up with my boyfriend. You don't seem satisfied with the relationship and unless you really want to work for that to change, it'd probably be best to get it over with and be done. Also, if you really have a connection with this other guy, you'd feel a lot less guilty talking to him if you were single and didn't have the weight of another relationship on your shoulders. Whatever the outcome, I hope all goes well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted October 5, 2018 Share Posted October 5, 2018 U said u have bipolar 1 right? Sounds like hypomania to me lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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