Danee Danee 5,179 Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 So in my man's friend circle is this girl... She acts very innocent and inexperienced in life. Yet I sense strong slyness from her. Like a lot. She is befriending guys and flirting with them in a way you notice but can mistake it for genuine friendship and care (even with guys who are taken) while keeping her image in tact. Once the guy get crush on her, she keeps to manipulating with him for her own gain, while playing push and pull even though she was never interested into dating him. One of my boyfriend's friend really fall for her and now is really hurt by her behaviour, most other guys are trying to date her too. The worst thing started when relationship with my significant other went through crisis (after 11yrs of being together). And she used it to put her hands on him too. He went through crush on her, even went on few dates with her (but nothing physical happened), we solved our issues and as with everybody else she just played the not interested anymore card with him which made him to end this completely. But since they are collegues he keeps her on fb and she is still contacting him quite often. Which is making me feel really uncomfortable. Now they went all together (around 20 people, she included, the guy who is in one sided love with her invited her) to drink. I appeared there too because of my own work reasons (its pretty funny story itself). She was the only one who didnt even greet me and once I sat next to my bf (next side of table than her), she moved immediatelly. Then called her two friends and loudly gossiped about me. Like how fugly I am, how stupid I am... Kept staring on me and giving me evil eyes... It was hella uncomfortable. To the point of some of other girls there noticed too. But since most of them know her from work and she is that nice and innocent girl, they took it as I did something to her and thinks I'm the bitch there. Since I'm kinda socially awkward person I was trying my best to make good impression, but tbh she ruined the whole evening for me. While my man thinks I'm overreacting because of his closed period with her. I seriously know not what to do about her since she I am trying to be friendly around my man's friends and all and she is trying hard to make everybody to dislike me. Not sure why. I never even talked to her or did anything bad to her. So this friday I'm going with my boyfriend to birthday party of one of his friends and there is high chance she will be there too. Not sure how should I prepare for this. Is there somebody who is not socially awkward and could give me some advices? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Bruh i’d go up to her and be like “listen here bitch, I run shit around here so sit down or I’ll have to put you back in your place†Or just ignore her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoonability 4,159 Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Just take her separate and tell her how you feel. Be real about it. Not communicating has never solved anything. That or just be nice to her; it's impossible to be painted as the bitch/socially awkward one if you're being polite and kind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruth Lehus 247 Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Just ignore her. That's the most easy way. But if you can't ignore her, tell her that "Hey you, #@$!@#$@$!$#@$#@!$^%&^%*&" #Helio Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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