Did I fuck up for myself?

[kookiestealer]

I have this male friend (Lets call him X) that I have great chemistry with. The first week we got to know each other we went out a lot and he acted very all over the place when drunk. The day after X always texted how I was feeling. He always sits with me in class, asks if I want to go out and have lunch break with him, if I want to study with him alone etc.  

 

Anyway, this weekend we were at the same party and I noticed many of the other females there had an eye for him. X is a very approachable and caring guy, so I got kind of insecure. Wondering if whatever I was feeling was just him liking to flirt or being nice: and when I get insecure I distance myself. (At one point he was holding around me, but when a girl I think likes him walked in he released his grip around me which left a bad taste in my mouth)

 

 

Later that night X seemed abit off after I told him about my other crush, so I joined some other friends out. We met later that same night and then he was cozying up on another mutual female friend. I just got overwhelmed with weird feelings. I tried playing it off as nothing, but my social anxiety kicked in and I felt very robotic/unnatural with my movements.

 

Also, another mutual male friend came up to us when we were standing together and asked if both of us were single (we both said yes) and said: “But that's perfect!†– Idk – did I fuck up? :(

 

Truthfully I think I’m getting over my “other†crush but X makes me confused with how he is treating other girls.

 

[Fluffyhairedbaek]

X seems to like being the center of attention of the girlies around him to me

 

Based on what i read he acts with the others just like how he acts around you. And you two arent anything exclusive so no, you didnt fuck up anything

 

If you want smth to come out of this (just to be sure and not stay hung up on some dude) ask him if he wants to take another step in your relationship

[Suzy Quatro]

If you already feel insecure, and you're not even dating him, then he might not be up for you. He might behave like that with girls he likes to 'test the waters' so to speak or he was doing that on purpose to make yo jealous but either way he doesn't seem very considerate about your feelings.