opopwqwew 482 Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 I've been crushing on this guy for the longest time ever and we are neighbors. Back then, we used to hang out a lot but we lost contact since I had to study abroad for a while. I recently contacted him and we talked casually about life and other things. But whenever we talk, it would usually be me who starts the conversation... So then, a few months ago, I had to do a school project where the teacher told us to interview people outside of school about a topic. I figured out that it would be a good chance to see him but because I was really nervous about inviting him, I asked one of my friends to do it instead (worst decision ever). He eventually accepted and when the day came, he didn't come at all and when I asked him about it, he told me that he didn't know where I was or when I was free when I actually told him. I was really upset and so, after he sent those messages, my friend used my account (with me knowing) and told him to "have a nice fucking day" and she told me to block him (I unblocked him a few days after that). And now suddenly I have the urge to text him again but I'm afraid that it'd be really awkward... So should I text him??? And if yes, what should I say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 If you told him and he forgot, he probably doesn't care that much about you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esk@ 198 Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 drop him he'll think you're desperate if you text him now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minnie._. 23,116 Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 Yes you should or you'll miss your chance like me, I ignore my crush on purpose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bb403 5 Posted September 17, 2018 Share Posted September 17, 2018 You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. And I don't think it's a big deal if he sees you as desperate, since worst case he'll just forget about it I'd imagine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaweedsoup 5 Posted October 9, 2018 Share Posted October 9, 2018 You should not let your relationship with someone you like just fizzle out like that. Don't let it soak too long, passivity is not a friend in times where communication is needed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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