HoneyBee12 33 Posted September 10, 2018 Share Posted September 10, 2018 I have met my guy friend for a few years now and we have hung out with just the two of us a couple of times. For these past years he takes a while to reply my messages and is usually the one to initiate our catchups. I messaged him a few weeks ago and didn't get a reply from him. Should I keep messaging him? Is this the end of our friendship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seunghee's eyebrows 32,641 Posted September 10, 2018 Share Posted September 10, 2018 End it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soft 4,386 Posted September 10, 2018 Share Posted September 10, 2018 happened to me a few times, if they are interested in talking to you they will answer, if not, its time to find people willing to chat with you, you deserve better op Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted September 10, 2018 Author Share Posted September 10, 2018 happened to me a few times, if they are interested in talking to you they will answer, if not, its time to find people willing to chat with you, you deserve better opLike I feel like I am losing a friend! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roamingcat 767 Posted September 10, 2018 Share Posted September 10, 2018 I would say it sounds like you two have a more acquaintance type of "friendship". If you're not comfortable with that then you can mentally end your friendship (tho to be brutally honest, it doesn't sound like it would affect him either way). Otherwise just keep living your life. You don't have to delete everyone who doesn't respond to your messages. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Is this mom ? 579 Posted September 10, 2018 Share Posted September 10, 2018 Yeah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted September 10, 2018 Author Share Posted September 10, 2018 I would say it sounds like you two have a more acquaintance type of "friendship". If you're not comfortable with that then you can mentally end your friendship (tho to be brutally honest, it doesn't sound like it would affect him either way). Otherwise just keep living your life. You don't have to delete everyone who doesn't respond to your messages.I have told myself a few times it is the end of the friendship as he has not been replying...But I have been having a dilemma if I should message him again because I feel like I am losing a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
borealis 497 Posted September 11, 2018 Share Posted September 11, 2018 same op. sometimes we don't want to let people go because we treasure them even when they don't appreciate us as much. if you are having a dilemma then you can message him for the last time. if he doesn't reply then maybe you shouldn't try again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted September 11, 2018 Author Share Posted September 11, 2018 same op. sometimes we don't want to let people go because we treasure them even when they don't appreciate us as much. if you are having a dilemma then you can message him for the last time. if he doesn't reply then maybe you shouldn't try again.Like I remember asking him how he was.. he didn't reply me.. so then I tried again after a few month asking him a straight forward question regarding my work.. he replied me.. therefore I don't know if I should ask how is is going again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
borealis 497 Posted September 11, 2018 Share Posted September 11, 2018 Like I remember asking him how he was.. he didn't reply me.. so then I tried again after a few month asking him a straight forward question regarding my work.. he replied me.. therefore I don't know if I should ask how is is going again if you are really curious you should message him. there is nothing wrong trying to maintain a friendship, if he still doesn't reply then you know what to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted September 11, 2018 Author Share Posted September 11, 2018 if you are really curious you should message him. there is nothing wrong trying to maintain a friendship, if he still doesn't reply then you know what to doOk. Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted September 24, 2018 Author Share Posted September 24, 2018 happened to me a few times, if they are interested in talking to you they will answer, if not, its time to find people willing to chat with you, you deserve better op I would say it sounds like you two have a more acquaintance type of "friendship". If you're not comfortable with that then you can mentally end your friendship (tho to be brutally honest, it doesn't sound like it would affect him either way). Otherwise just keep living your life. You don't have to delete everyone who doesn't respond to your messages. if you are really curious you should message him. there is nothing wrong trying to maintain a friendship, if he still doesn't reply then you know what to doMessaged him... It has been around one week... I have not received a reply.. I also don't want to know if he has read my message ( I don't want to check as it is going to make me angry again) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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