Yoonability 4,159 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 Okay so here's my situation I've been a student for 3 years now in my university city and up until now I've had friendly fellow students but not really any true 'friends'. I'm in a major with a lot of people who I just don't really mesh with, and groups form pretty easily since it's a major with a LOT of people (around 500 for the more general courses). Anyway, last Tuesday and Thursday I went to some events of this gay organisation and I had a BLAST. Met some really great people there, amongst which 2 girls who I went to the event with and then afterwards went to a different bar with. They're both first years but they seemed really exited and were talking about how we had to do something like that again and stuff (where I come from people don't really say these things just to be polite). I have both of their numbers. They went to high school together so they're already friends. I'm just sort of wondering where to go from here? The next event of the gay organisation is around 21 september which is still quite far away imo. I also have their snapchat. Should I not really try to contact them until then or would that be a little bit too cold? I really want to keep on good terms but I don't want to be too pushy/desperate! Help my autistic ass out please lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hehe haha xd 3,081 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 I say be casual in the meantime. Like friendly messages to their snap stories from day to day, it could stir a conversation but don't be too forceful and wait till the next event. Usually after you hang out 2/3 times it becomes easier and more natural to contact them afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exoztao 362 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 i'd say go for it and try to meet up with them before the 21st - try starting a convo in text and depending on the vibe you get, decide if you want to invite them to hang out, otherwise just like message to say hi and like get to know them a bit more even if they don't really respond well, at least you'll know that you tried and next time you can try to meet new people instead!! ♡ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimz 3,113 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 How about asking if they want to hang out, go see a movie/go to the mall/etc? It won't hurt anything to ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 I say be casual in the meantime. Like friendly messages to their snap stories from day to day, it could stir a conversation but don't be too forceful and wait till the next event. Usually after you hang out 2/3 times it becomes easier and more natural to contact them afterwards. Not day to day like week to week lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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