TalkingCat 435 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 I just feel really empty..no just my whole heart ripped apart because he was a person I wanted to spend a long time with. Actually this is the first time I fell in love deeply with someone so it’s also the first time I’m experienced a heart broken as painful as this one. I know with time everything will be okay, but even though we agreed to stay friends, I feel like I lost my best friend and my boyfriend at the same time. Maybe in the future there will be someone I love more deeply, but right now I just feel crushed and shocked. You know, I’m terrified of being in relationships because of this. Because of a person changing their mind. It’s natural right? It’s okay to change feelings, it’s not That persons fault. But it’s fucking painful being on the receiving end. It’s fucking painful hearing that the person you are in love with doesn’t love you anymore. I need a hug...ah suddenly I miss my family. I don’t have a lot of friends in my university..it’s hard to endure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PARADISE.MP3 3,444 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 It’s just another hurdle in life, think of it as a new beginning, you’re in university right? There is still so much time for you to grow as a person and experience in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-kenz~ 418 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 · Hidden by SINphony, August 31, 2018 - No reason given Hidden by SINphony, August 31, 2018 - No reason given lmao Link to comment
Cerulean 983 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 yeah i'm never dating man fuck this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B612 22,399 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 I'm so sorry to hear that, I know you really liked being with him Don't be afraid of being with someone else in the future but have in mind that these things happen but you will be fine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TalkingCat 435 Posted August 31, 2018 Author Share Posted August 31, 2018 It’s just another hurdle in life, think of it as a new beginning, you’re in university right? There is still so much time for you to grow as a person and experience in life. Actually I didn’t really have anyone but him. I just feel..idk he has been helping me a lot with my depression and now I guess I kind of lost that support...I’m not sure if I can handle it well I’m not sure why you think this is funny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pd48fanatic 14 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 What's funny? Unless you're a complete loser that laughs at others misery. OP you will get through this break ups are always terrible at first, you need to give yourself some time to heal! *sends virtual hug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tamarind 1,746 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 i'm sorry that this happened to u, especially when ur in love with him and want to be together with him for a long time. it's and end, alright, but this will pass just like every other thing in life. u love him now and feel like losing everything when he broke it up but u will move on with time. and who knows? maybe u can still be back together. u are still young and imo it's not worth it being too hung up on a relationship that ends already. cheer up~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TalkingCat 435 Posted August 31, 2018 Author Share Posted August 31, 2018 yeah i'm never dating man fuck this I think the reason this hurts the most is because he is the first person to treat me well. So I’m heartbroken and also thankful for the feeling he gave me. Dating isn’t so bad just sucks when it comes to an end Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 yeah i'm never dating man fuck this Good luck with your cats Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PARADISE.MP3 3,444 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 Actually I didn’t really have anyone but him. I just feel..idk he has been helping me a lot with my depression and now I guess I kind of lost that support...I’m not sure if I can handle it well Yeah depression sucks, just remember that something that may seem awful at first will be a distant memory a year from now, do something that makes you happy in the meantime, I usually sleep or listen to music when the depression kicks in Stay strong! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 oh nooo :( i've read your threads so i was hoping this one would work out for you if you don't mind me asking what was the reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 Good riddance. Whatever, you can find wayyyyy better. Tbh I wouldn’t stay friends. Take this as an oppurtunity to find yourself and make new friends. If you guys stay friends you won’t really be able to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 :( Op!! Trust me when I say I know how you feel. I felt the same exact way a month ago. I felt empty all the time and my mind would be filled with his thoughts from the moment I woke up until I went to bed. Ofc you’ll get through this. Time heals all and of course you’ll find someone better. That’s the standard thing everyone will tell you but it’s the process of healing that’s painful. I felt so empty and I refused to believe it ended you know?? I would always check my phone hoping he’d text and ask to start over. But that never happened. A month later after I’m over him he texts me out of the blue and I told him Id prefer if he never texted me again. The best advice I can give you is to stay strong and suppress the urges that make you want him. It’s normal to miss him but try to miss him without wanting him back. It’s gonna be hard but trust me one day you’ll wake up and realize you deserve so much better and you won’t even think about him anymore. Good luck op Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 i feel so sorry for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerulean 983 Posted September 4, 2018 Share Posted September 4, 2018 Good luck with your cats I have amazing friends, family, and a fulfilling career. Plus I love cats so I'll be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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