Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 We broke up a month ago. I made a thread on oh about it I believe. I had a hard time getting over him but a month later when I finally moved on he decides to text me out of the blue? I texted him back but like all my responses were very brief and now he just texted me asking me if I have a bf and I asked him why? Lol I don’t have any feelings towards him and I don’t wanna get back together with him. But I feel like it’s rude if I don’t text back? So I’ve been texting him. Can y’all gimme advice on how to deal with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluequail 785 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 i would probably ask why he wants to know before actually answering him tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 do you still want to talk to him? if not, politely tell him to leave you alone idk how to do that though because i'm a prick irl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FactMan 2,366 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 If you're both not on bad terms then I don't see why not talking, but definitely try not talking lol. But if you were on bad terms then cut this short asap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 If you're both not on bad terms then I don't see why not talking, but definitely try not talking lol. But if you were on bad terms then cut this short asap. We broke up on good terms but it has been the hardest breakup of my life and I’m finally over it. But then he texts right after summer ends like wtf man? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 " I'm ridding a deluxe d*ck you fool, and this mofo baths me in cash and treat me with the respect a queen deserves, have a good life", ..... and then you link him the G-idle video Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soft 4,386 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 Since you asked him why already I guess people can only advice you based on his answer :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vitaminplus 1,971 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 We broke up on good terms but it has been the hardest breakup of my life and I’m finally over it. But then he texts right after summer ends like wtf man? Yeah don't reply im time leave it hanging for a day or two reply later and don't act interested whatsoever so he gets the idea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 Since you asked him why already I guess people can only advice you based on his answer :/ I’m waiting for him to text me back. He always takes forever it pisses me off lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,520 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 You said it yourself. You don't have any feelings for him and you don't want to get back together. You need to be kind and tell him that in a firm way otherwise he may build up hope of resuming your past relationship. That's the best thing for you both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 Yeah don't reply im time leave it hanging for a day or two reply later and don't act interested whatsoever so he gets the idea Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 You said it yourself. You don't have any feelings for him and you don't want to get back together. You need to be kind and tell him that in a firm way otherwise he may build up hope of resuming your past relationship. That's the best thing for you both. How should I say it? Cuz when I try to say something it sometimes comes off as rude and that’s the last thing I wanna come off as Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FactMan 2,366 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 How should I say it? Cuz when I try to say something it sometimes comes off as rude and that’s the last thing I wanna come off as reply that you don't have a bf (because you don't) and that you want to stay single for a long time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 reply that you don't have a bf (because you don't) and that you want to stay single for a long time Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 I wouldn't even bother replying, but if you do just be as brief and uninterested as possible. He might think he can have you back or something so it would be better for you to not give him much importance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 He texted me back saying that he’s just asking cuz it’s been very long since we talked lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,520 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 How should I say it? Cuz when I try to say something it sometimes comes off as rude and that’s the last thing I wanna come off asSomething to the effect of "I will always have good memories of the time we were together. I have moved on and don't want to hurt you by giving you a false hope. It would be for the best if we stopped talking with each other because I don't feel the connection we once had". Obviously you know him and the level of what you have to say. I can only generalize. Edit:I see. Overthinking going on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 Something to the effect of "I will always have good memories of the time we were together. I have moved on and don't want to hurt you by giving you a false hope. It would be for the best if we stopped talking with each other because I don't feel the connection we once had". Obviously you know him and the level of what you have to say. I can only generalize. Edit:I see. Overthinking going on. I didnt answer his question. About if I have a bf. I told him have a good evening and added a bye at the end. Hope he gets the message lmaoooo!! I’m done texting him honestly ndksslalclol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss.Miss 8,896 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 Just wait for his answer and be honest and clear on what you want. If it means you have to cut contact then do it. Explain where you stand and that you need time and space. Don't worry about being rude because you shouldn't owe him anything. As long as you make it clear it's about you and your own needs he should respect that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
________________ 1,779 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 I’m waiting for him to text me back. He always takes forever it pisses me off lol If you were truly important, he'd make time for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 31, 2018 Author Share Posted August 31, 2018 If you were truly important, he'd make time for you. I know. I never should’ve texted him back. He always makes me feel like I’m an option. Anyways I’m done texting him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
________________ 1,779 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 I know. I never should’ve texted him back. He always makes me feel like I’m an option. Anyways I’m done texting him I'm just going to gif spam to remind you of your priorities!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AStan 453 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 You can still talk but keep it impersonal without leading him on I guess? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 just ignore him and move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyPopCupcake 2,421 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 Honestly I read somewhere this is what f*ckboys do when they're bored and trying to just get some. Not sure though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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