lalisabp 7 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 Or simply don’t wanna talk to people? I’m think I need new groups of friends because one them is we have an awkward friendship we barely talk on the phone or text, and the other friend keeps on asking me why I’m shy and my other 3 friends I can have a conversation with them because their more comfortable to talk to them. Should I not be friends with these two girls because both get on my nerves? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 You shouldn’t have to be shy in front of your real friends. If you’re shy then that means you’re not very comfortable around them. Yes, you should find new friends who make you comfortable to be around them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami the II. 1,723 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 Don't force yourself to be friends with someone if you don't want to. But don't act like there is a wall between you and the 2 girls either. Not being able to get along with them might harm your friendship with the 3 girls you like too, in a further future. Try to communicate with them on basic things than 'deep' topic. You will feel more comfortable if you go bit by bit than trying to make friends with them all of a sudden. You might build a friendship with these 2 too, who knows? Friendship goals hwaiting !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kyanite 579 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 There's nothing wrong with being shy. Embrace who you are and if necessary find friends who actually appreciate and relate to your personality. You may find you become so comfortable with these new people you won't even feel shy at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SugaJam 3,634 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 You're not shy, you just not comfortable with them. You are not going to get along/close with everyone, but just keep thing civil and respectful and all will be good. If the relationship turn sour, then make new friends. This way you will eventually learn who to associate with, and who's not to. Focus on quality, not quantity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peachuu 118 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 as someone who is shy too and constantly get asked similar questions, i completely understand how you feel. it's so annoying because there's honestly nothing wrong with being shy so i don't get why some people seem to make such an issue about it. about the remaining friends or not part, if they make you feel uncomfortable then no. it's only going to negatively impact you if you hang out with people who you don't feel good around. personally i would try to talk to them about it first. because for all you know they might not even realize how their actions make you feel and maybe you can get to a mutual understanding with one another. but if they still make you feel uncomfortable after that just cut them off and focus on your other friends who you do like hanging out with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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