arineunha 352 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 Im tired and dont want to try and date anymore. I tried to make it work and support him through good and bad times..and i think two people should be happy together in a relationship Basically he doesnt really show he cares..and he likes to get his needs met first. He has many expectations for me and i need to change but he says he's already perfect ao he doesnt need to. He calls me nasty names (bitch, whore, cunt, gross, disgusting, selfish) when i dont conform to his idea of a relationship. He spams my messages and once he called me around 30 times because i went to a concert with my friend.He gets to controlling and its really damaging my mental health and sanity. He even put me on a discord call and told his friends i was crazy. My physical health isnt so good either so theres only so much i can do too physically He screamed at me again today. I said nope i dont have feelings for you anymore and i dont really care what you say. He finally called back to apologize in his fake voice being the fake bf he is I do things he doesnt like he thinks he can make me a better person but i think i can manage or try to be better myself This relationship seems impossible to fix, i dont know Being single feels lonely and sad too, but its better than to live with a constant headache. Save yourselves Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rich witch 20,592 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 he's by the book the abusive boyfriend. please end it with him and take care. also, talk about it with someone close and let them know he may be dangerous. i'm sorry to hear things are this way. hopefully you meet someone better someday who treats you right. and even if you don't want that, that's also fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fracherin 695 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 He's a piece of shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katsu curry chips 7,808 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 He calls me nasty names (bitch, whore, cunt, gross, disgusting, selfish) when i dont conform to his idea of a relationship. This relationship seems impossible to fix, i dont know it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,520 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 You are right to be rid of such an abusive person. Take some time to heal yourself. Take what has happened as a lesson in the wrong way to be in a relationship. I am sure you will find a genuine future with someone who will love and respect you in the way you deserve. I wish you the best of luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juu 3,359 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 you did great honey, let him rot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Good Luck 828 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 Being single is 1000 times better than being treated this badly. You did well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Needles 373 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 Seems like you made the right decision, he seemed like an abusive and manipulative person. You're better off without him, now you can focus on yourself for a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluffyhairedbaek 4,740 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 What did you even see in him to actually date him. He sounds like prick You did great by breaking up with him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myungsoogf 24 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 i think this would be a great opportunity for you to indulge in some much needed self care. it's not easy for people to end their relationships with an abusive partner but for you to recognize and finally take action is so commendable! despite however it is you're feeling, i want you to recognize how strong of a person you are for resolving this issue. at least moving forward, in the future you will be able to find someone 1000000x better than him. wishing your well-being and mental health the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Usagi. 13,668 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 wtf he sounds like a scumbag. You made the right decision, with this kind of relationship it's easy to lose confidence and that's the last thing someone needs in their life. About feeling lonely after breaking up, from my own experience, It's necessary. It's good to learn how to deal with yourself and your mind, find things that make you happy by your own. Relationships are great, friendship too, but when you are too afraid of being alone you trend to hold yourself in all kind of toxic relationships, because you are scared of being lonely, and that's not good at all. Love yourself first, you took a big step to do it already so congratulations. I'm sure one day you are going to meet more people who is good to you in several ways, and have healthy relationships, so don't worry, ok? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trinity 773 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 Good you broke up with him. He sounds like a scumbag. Good riddance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 what a fucking asshole. i hate people like that so much. those are such awful names to call you and he also blows up your phone? yikes! they're always going to be like that no matter how many chances you give them bc they think its ok and that they can get away with it i'm so glad you got out of that relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xharuharux 2,487 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 so proud of you for recognizing that toxic behaviour. you will get better and take time to focus on what YOU want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arineunha 352 Posted August 27, 2018 Author Share Posted August 27, 2018 i think this would be a great opportunity for you to indulge in some much needed self care. it's not easy for people to end their relationships with an abusive partner but for you to recognize and finally take action is so commendable! despite however it is you're feeling, i want you to recognize how strong of a person you are for resolving this issue. at least moving forward, in the future you will be able to find someone 1000000x better than him. wishing your well-being and mental health the best! thank you so much! im going to focus on myself for now, and it took a lot of time for me to realize that this relationship was toxic. nowsdays I just feel constant headaches and migraines from our arguments, which made me think twice I hope that's true but I wont be dating for a long time, thank you <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arineunha 352 Posted August 27, 2018 Author Share Posted August 27, 2018 wtf he sounds like a scumbag. You made the right decision, with this kind of relationship it's easy to lose confidence and that's the last thing someone needs in their life. About feeling lonely after breaking up, from my own experience, It's necessary. It's good to learn how to deal with yourself and your mind, find things that make you happy by your own. Relationships are great, friendship too, but when you are too afraid of being alone you trend to hold yourself in all kind of toxic relationships, because you are scared of being lonely, and that's not good at all. Love yourself first, you took a big step to do it already so congratulations. I'm sure one day you are going to meet more people who is good to you in several ways, and have healthy relationships, so don't worry, ok? thank you so much! it took a lot of time for me to end it, because he said he had feelings for me and it conflicted with the things that he said when he got mad. being lonely is unavoidable I guess, but it's for the better ^^ loving ourselves is the most important thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 you did good by dumping him. he's an asshole. i hope you dont see or meet him again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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