EasySteezy 860 Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 So you guys know how I've been in this serious relationship where I'm living with the dude for a while now. It's been my whole life. I don't even really use this site anymore because we are always out doing fun stuff. Well, yesterday we almost broke up. The fight was so huge. He even was bringing my stuff to my car for me to entirely move out right then. He then sat down and said he loved me and backtracked and asked if I would be willing to stay. I said yes, because I really love him. He has been there through some REALLY rough times in my life and helped me in so many ways. introduced me to a healthier happier lifestyle. One where I feel important and loved, One where I'm eating healthier and now ALMOST have total abs. I never thought I was capable of love until I met him. It just broke my heart to think it could possibly be over. One thing that broke my heart is he texted me today that he wants to be with me and loves me, but that people can be in love but can't be together but he REALLY doesn't want it to be that way. I don't want to get into details of the argument, but basically he's having trouble with trusting me these days. I'm feeling hopeless right now. like really hopeless. everything is going to shit. still no job. still have a tumor in my fucking brain. my best friend might be moving out of state. I'm feeling hopeless. Just really doomed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Binggeul✯☽ 2,834 Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 Stay strong, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amal.ha 6,674 Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 Oh I remember you !! Don't stress yourself too much that can't be good for your health ( I know easier said than done ), just know that everything passes and this dark period of your life will pass too . From past posts , he seems like he really loves you and cares for you so hopefully everything will go back to normal . Stay strong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thigh-high feminist 15,771 Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 It's not hopeless just tell him you know you have to earn his trust and you want to do that cause you love him and you'd never hurt him again (or something like that). Then prove it cause he does seem like a winner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 It’s always darkest before the dawn sis <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted August 22, 2018 Share Posted August 22, 2018 You're really going through some though times but out of all your problems ending a relationship isn't as bad, or at least it isn't something impossible to recover. It's not a very encouraging thing to say but meaningful relationships are like that you can feel very loved and happy and then total shit and depressed, like if someone had just died. So I hope you can overcome all of this and everything turns good for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted August 22, 2018 Share Posted August 22, 2018 I’m not sure what the details are for your argument. Maybe it might be a good idea to take a break from each other? Give each other some space. You obviously still both love each other, fights happen. Don’t worry everything will be ok. Just take one thing at a time. You can only try your best. Not everything is in ones control. Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 i was really happy for you when you were first talking about this guy idk what your situation is so i just hope things will work out for you in the end Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasySteezy 860 Posted August 23, 2018 Author Share Posted August 23, 2018 i was really happy for you when you were first talking about this guy idk what your situation is so i just hope things will work out for you in the end It's really something that shouldn't be serious at all, but he's blowing things out of proportion because of things in his past. We are talking about him seeing someone to sort through these feelings though. like a therapist or something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 stay strong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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