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How do I reconcile with my mad girlfriend ?


Flowsik

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  1. 1. Would you forgive me ?



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Well so me and my girlfriend were sitting on our coach
She wanted me to say something nice to her
I asked stuff like what ?
And she said well tell me stuff like I'm the most beautiful woman in the world etc
Well I replied with but you already know that darling..
And then she said but a woman wants to hear sometimes that she is the most beautiful one in the world etc
I calmly replied with but you already said that for me..
Suddenly she said stuff like:,,Sometimes I really think you love your car more than me."
And then I replied with:,, Well it cost alot of money.."
Then she kinda got more aggressive and asked me:,, If I were in an accident with your car.. would you call the ambulance for me first or the tow truck for your car ?"
I calmly answered with:,, The tow truck of course."
She got mad and screamed loud:,,Meanie."
Then I said:,,Joking."
And well she grasped her breath again and said:,,I knew it you love me the most."
But then I said:,, I would never lend you my car."
After that she got mad and hit me with the pillow for a while
Now she is sulking for days..
I don't know how to approach her though since she always goes away whenever I come into a 10m radius

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zpD2mxdFisQ

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Well I am not sure if I should tell you that what you said wasn't nice, because (granted I know girls want to feel special in the eyes of thier bf) i don't think I can excuse the behavior of someone throwing a fit because you didn't cater to their vanity, sorry. I have had a bf and while I did like him giving me compliments, I didn't lose my cool when he didn't. So to you: maybe your gf is sensitive or you could be a bit insensitive to her, however like I said I think her move wasn't something I would excuse and call mature, kinda kiddish. That is my take.

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She's a bit too sensitive, isn't she? :._.:

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 Well... your approach wasn't exactly nice, and she was overly sensitive.

That being said, perhaps understand that about your girlfriend, and try to be a bit gentler with her next time :) Tell her what you mean, and maybe she can work on her sensitivity as well.

 

I think most girls really appreciate affection that they can recognize, such as boyfriends telling them that they are beautiful etc. But girls don't want to always be begging for it. When they're fed up with waiting for you to say it, they'll ask for it directly. Her anger seemed to have escalated quickly, so I think that might've been the case. She was waiting, and then she begged for it, and then she got your answer, and was really let down by it.

 

Give her some time to cool off. I'm sure she'll come around. In the meantime, maybe send her a sweet 'good morning' text each morning, etc to let her know that you're still there and caring for her. Hope you guys can get over it.

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It's like my husband asking me do you love me or your sport bike then i said jokingly my sport bike lol

 

all jokes aside just give her flowers say your sorry and give her the D and like what others say buy her a car like this man did to his girlfriend.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=y3UmCQniAUk

 

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