me and my bf will celebrate 1st monthsary ,, any ideas for perfect monthsary date

[MzKittyKath]

well tbh im running out of ideas lol

[Daria~]

What’s a monthsary? One month together?

[café]

What’s a monthsary? One month together?

Yes.

 

And in response to you OP, don't go too overboard with gifts. Something heartfelt or even handmade would be perfect since you're just starting off. If you last, you'll have enough occasions to get him other things.

[Mingyu's Blue Hair]

Go to picnic, amusement park, a luxury restaurant or cinema.

 

Give him handmade foods, clothes or accessories.

[Cactuslove]

Something intimate and at night with music, but not the club. Or if like day time better go to am amusement park. If that is too loud for you how about aa movie? If that too boring, how about dinner, a bit basic but classic option though.

What ever you choose have fun.

[Daria~]

Yes.

And in response to you OP, don't go too overboard with gifts. Something heartfelt or even handmade would be perfect since you're just starting off. If you last, you'll have enough occasions to get him other things.

Well then. I didn’t know people celebrated that, thanks.

Congrats OP. I wish I had any ideas but going lowkey and simple is probably the best option

[Nimz]

Don't celebrate first months. That's just stupid.

[Haêra]

go shopping

[Bluebells and Snowdrops]

Congrats on the monthsary, I hope you will have a happy and long lasting relationship.

 

Go on a nice dinner together, or go to the movies. Maybe just do something nice together to celebrate.

[Artemosia]

One month anniversary doesn't deserve even an extra penny spent... Do something better when you hit 3 months possibly or wait for 1 year

[Nsfw]

A month... lol

[ChungJoJo]

just kick it off, and relax, no need for spending.

[camelliabloom]

Honestly I wouldn't celebrate a month.  Maybe like a little dinner or something inexpensive but nothing like a gift or god forbid a social media post because that'll just make y'all look immature to other people for lack of a better word.

 

The minimum I'd celebrate is like 6 months, and even then I wouldn't celebrate but rather just be like "Happy 6 months" and have really good sex and order food or something.  My bf and I really only went "all-out" with our 1 year anniversary and will probably do the same for our 2 year, but not much of anything between then.

[sugarcube]

sis a month is nothing, don't waste your time if yall will break up. wait for 3 or 6 months at least lol

 

but if you really want to make it really cheap and really small like a movie or a picnic or smth

[namidaone]

Celebrating M1 is not mandatory

but I've never understood what's so disappointing abt choosing to celebrating it on sns and in rl? 

I celebrated M1s w/ my exes and even though the relationships never lasted long, 

Personally, I'm glad I had those esp bc not all of my relationships were official like that. 

 

OP re your question,

You and your bf could celebrate it by recreating some of the special moments of that day when you both decided to be a couple.

Like what was the song played, what show did you two watch at the time, etc. And then add a new twist to make your 1st monthsary just as memorable. 

Or you and your bf can do hobbies which you either both have in common or which one of you could teach the other.  

Don't stress yourself too much on planning the event, though. 

The most important thing is you get to share love and good vibes with the one who* you chose to be with and who also chose you back! 

*edit: added who

[sangria]

eat out somewhere nice. my friend told me never to start off celebrating the "-versaries" with a super expensive or creative gift because then they'll expect something better the next time you celebrate lol. it's best to start off with something simple (like eating out or watching a movie together) and then as you progress into your relationship, that's when you start upgrading your "gifts" lol

[edelgard]

a cute little date or dinner would be nice. also if you want a small gift too

[Jurin � Onew]

Spend a nice and meaningful time with him