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I met my boyfriend in my Master's program, he actually had a girlfriend back then and we were just friends. Then things went south with her and I was his support through those tough times+ he was struggling with depression and really dark things. Then we realized we had feelings for each other but we didn't admit it even though it was crystal clear.

 

 

 

One day, before he went back home for a week, he gave me a book and told me to open it when I get home. When I opened it, it had our story drawn and written with crayons and he asked me to be his girlfriend.

 

Might be cheesy for 20+ year olds but I found it super cute

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aww that's cute. it sucks having feelings for someone who is taken. it's sweet that you were there for him :o

 

Honestly, I could've been extremely angry and resentful at some things he did. But I think life is not about the easy and sweet things but the difficult times and getting through them together, it makes me happy to think that we went through so much together and still manage to be lovey-dovey

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Honestly, I could've been extremely angry and resentful at some things he did. But I think life is not about the easy and sweet things but the difficult times and getting through them together, it makes me happy to think that we went through so much together and still manage to be lovey-dovey

 

that's true, i have been in a situation quite similar actually. being through tough times together really brings you closer, shows how strong you guys can be, and not let it ruin what you guys have together. relationships are not easy at all. i hope you guys last forever a long time ! 

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that's true, i have been in a situation quite similar actually. being through tough times together really brings you closer, shows how strong you guys can be, and not let it ruin what you guys have together. relationships are not easy at all. i hope you guys last forever a long time ! 

 

we plan to get married sometime <3 thank you

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i don't think i will ever meet mine because i have trust issues and a bad perception of people because of things that have happened to me and my family in the past - for instance, you getting that book with the drawing, I personally would have felt sick and super suspicious about the guy even if I did have a crush on him or like him... that's just how things happen with me. I normally end things with people before they get too deep, be it friends or other, I do that to "protect" myself. 

 

p.s. i do wish you the best with your boyfriend, not trying to imply anything, it's just how I would have reacted and i'm kind of nuts so LOL so pay no attention to me

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I met my bf when I was 8 and he was like 14. He was a friend of my older half-sister. I was pretty shy around him when I was younger, but when I got older we became closer friend. We started dating last year.

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I met my bf when I was 8 and he was 14. I met him through my older half-sister because they were classmates. I was shy because I had this little puppy crush on him because he is attractive. When I got older I became close friend with him. I am now 26 and we just started dating last Dec.

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I met my bf when I was 8 and he was 14. I met him through my older half-sister because they were classmates. I was shy because I had this little puppy crush on him because he is attractive. When I got older I became close friend with him. I am now 26 and we just started dating last Dec.

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I met my bf when I was 8 and he was like 14. He was a friend of my older half sister and I had this tiny puppy crush. When I was younger I had crushes on every single handsome guy that I cross path with btw. And when I got a little older we became actuall close friend. I am now 26 and we just started dating last Dec.

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  • 4 weeks later...

Ehh I’m talking to like 3 guys rn? Idk if I’d consider them either but.

 

One added me on snapchat and we started talking lol turns out he lives near my city. He just sends me shirtless pics all the time.

 

Another I went to school with for like 3 years. I bet we even had classes together but I never noticed him much that way >.< he’s not in any of my classes but we’ve been talking recently and he’s lowkey cute ngl. He’s highkey a fuckboy tho lmfaoooooooo.

 

Oh and there’s this other guy idk if he likes me or I like him but he’s always starring at me. He’s older than me but I took the prereqs at my last school so he sits in front of me...idk much about him except that he gets weirdly good grades n thinks our school is a bad learning environment. All we ever talk about is concerts and where to get drugs lmfao.

 

Damn I’m a hoe.

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Well, there was a girl I liked a lot in high school thanks to my friends. I had just moved to that city recently so I didn't know that much people expect from my classmates and some of my friends were constantly talking about this girl. I thought they were exaggerating or something but when I finally saw her I was super crushed on her. She already had a boyfriend but I still felt the need to go and talk to her but was very hesitant for a few weeks. I had one class with her and was still figuring out how to approach her or what to tell her but then she was the one that approached me and started to flirt with me a lot, lol, from there on it went pretty smooth until college.

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my bf broke up with this girl (a ex-friend of mine) and he asked for my number at a mutual friend's party. the girl is an ex-friend because well I didn't really know they dated and she wasn't really that close to me. my bf and I broke contact with them (because her group and friends started to talk shit about us)..we dated. it felt like we were doing a bad thing lol

 

I didn't think we would end up together because I was rejected/broken up with and I was always thinking so negatively/ depressed. I thought he wanted to be friends and he confessed to liking me. then I was like "why do you like me?"

 

and he told me it was because I was weird. I had the best and worst dating experience with him, because it's an emotional roller coaster.....

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