café 1,219 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Okay, one, this isn't a boasting post..It actually happens everyday, people/mainly men check me out. I'm not saying i'm extremely beautiful but I am decently pretty and dress really well, I also have a confident walk..so that may be the reason. But it gets really uncomfortable because I can't walk alone without feelings stares or hearing things I don't want to hear. What would you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluffyhairedbaek 4,740 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Ignore em and Continue walking I mean there isnt much you can do here unless you confident enough to clap back and show em the bird hmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 not much you can do unless you wanna talk back to them or smth lol... you can't help it that you're good looking. just embrace it i suppose? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hehe haha xd 3,081 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 you were born pretty embrace it sis! live your life without worrying about other people's stares Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holo 1,840 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 People will stare for whatever reason. It sucks, but it is something to overcome and understand. When I was in Japan I got stares because of my darker skin, in Canada I used to get stares because of my long hair, in Kenya it was because of my lighter skin. I found most of the times stares werent something done intentionally but rather people would just look at the thing that was different. It isnt their fault most of the time, it just doesnt register that what they are doing makes me uncomfortable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Not much you can do about that. I tend to look at women I think are dressed well even if I'm not attracted to them. And from your other post you like to shop highend, so that might attract eyes too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theidolcyborg 383 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Just embrace it that your born pretty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mayumi 23 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Just keep walking. I get stare at by guy, but I just ignore it. Sometime they probably son't realize that they staring either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 You should ignore them unless is someone you like. You could also just hear music so you don't have to listen to them and if you wear glasses then don't wear them, it makes everything blurry and easier to ignore people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Same, we just have to accept that we’re hot sis *sigh* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 You can’t do anything about glancing but you can tell them to stop if they are leering or saying something disgusting. Maybe say you’re taken already and not interested. I don’t see why women should just take it. Some men think they’re entitled to act however they want which is wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungjins 676 Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Ignore them. I know it's easier said than done- it took me a long and difficult time to stop smiling out of panic/pay them attention. But it's the best way if you feel uncomfortable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singaporefan 312 Posted August 9, 2018 Share Posted August 9, 2018 Okay, one, this isn't a boasting post..It actually happens everyday, people/mainly men check me out. I stopped when you lied Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
café 1,219 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Share Posted August 9, 2018 Okay, one, this isn't a boasting post..It actually happens everyday, people/mainly men check me out. I stopped when you lied Yikes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 just ignore them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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