MzKittyKath 11,686 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 im having a trust issues again im just scared to cheated again... but how do you trust your bf/gf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,520 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 Such a difficult situation. I have trust issues because me father chronically cheated on my mother. I think in the end if you don't put some trust into the relationship you may ruin it by placing a wedge between the two of you. Think hard about whether or not there are any signs of problems or if it is just insecurities on your part. Only you can make these decisions in the end. I really don't know what else to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KUMA-MON 12,792 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 Again? Drop that shit sis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misaka 1,249 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 can't relate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphony 441 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 I don't have a bf I have a dog, I trust him more than a human being Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blond jenissi 676 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 I never 100% trust my BFs (or anyone who I haven't known well for years for that matter) but we're adults and I can't control them or lose my sleep over what they might do. If they aren't mature enough to either keep it in their pants or break up it's their own problem and time will reveal how mature they are or aren't. I'm not going to feed my insecurities or obsess or even question myself if a BF cheats on me bc he'd obviously not be worth it. (I mean, i used to do this shit when I was like 16 but i'm too tired to constantly worry such things now) btw if your bf/gf has cheated on you before I understand why you feel like this but imo you cant be in a relationship that there isn't trust, it never ends well. drop them hun, you can do better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheSilver 211 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 Again? Sis I'm giving you a side-eye. I've been cheated on before and I was angry for a few months (I broke up with him straight away). But I never took any of that mistrust or hurt into my following relationships. I don't get into relationships with fuck boys. If I can't trust someone then I would never date them. All of my relationships have started out with full trust, and I try to keep it that way with open and direct communication. I'd rather not date at all than be in a toxic relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystica_ 5 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 Nah .. I am just super careless, plus the community I am living in is pretty conservative, I doubt he would think of doing anything I don't know how to tell you, I have never thought about the world 'cheating', the circumstances I am living with him is securing our relationship, we are together because we chose to, plus I sacrificed alot for him -I am living in primitive village bcuz of his work- also he is not the type of hyping over everywoman he sees -nor that he attracts women- both of me and him are pretty average so that's why we are comfortable .. we are not expecting superiorities from each other and we accept each other's insecurities. I think trust issues comes when you feel like they are ignoring you or drifting away from you .. it is understandable. Sometimes I think people make mistakes choosing the people who they would date. Choose someone in your level and trust me both of you won't doubt each other .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charan 303 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 I trust my bf because I chose to date him because he's a good guy and I can tell how much he loves me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 Bruh just dump him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 just break up with him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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