adelightfulsong 1,656 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 I don't really know. I wouldn't call my father bad but he was an extremely lazy parent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodYezi 102 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent father. Way better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkpanda_spirit 14,647 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 absent father. idk about my sisters but me and my mother are happier since the day he cut contact with us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent. I was raised by a single mother because she didn't want my father involved at all and it was honestly more than ok with me because that's all I knew. I finally met my dad maybe 2 years ago. Now that I know him as an adult we're fine but my siblings say he was not good to them and would have rather had him absent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,520 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 I had both. First he was bad and then he was absent. I preferred absent because it hurt my mother emotionally less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youtrieditduh 4,575 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent father. Way better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t a e c h u u 92 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Ayy Big Gay 8,172 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 i have a bad father and i want is him to be absent theres more emotional turmoil with having a bad father around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wild & Young 193 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 It depends what makes him a bad father, I guess.... But I think, if kids want a bad father around it is because they somehow hope, that he will be a good father eventually. My sister and I don´t have contact to our father. I´m fine with that, my sister is not... Even though our situations are not exactly the same, it is the same person as our father and in my opinion it is much less emotionally draining without him around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sohryu 894 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 ABSENT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rolling Thunder 1,830 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent If you can’t do it right don’t do it at all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dubious 223 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent father. Way better.This. I ended up cutting my dad off entirely a couple of months ago because I'm just done with his shit, and wouldn't have minded much at all if he wasn't present in my life beforehand (he didn't do much of anything to begin with). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tafattsbarn 6,151 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Absent, a hundred percent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GRISHA - A Yoonbin Stan 16,868 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 His absence could make him a bad father unless work makes him absent so it’s not fair to begrudge that since he’s providing for the family Never would want a bad father, ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 absent. a bad father can fuck you up real bad as a person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Depends how bad the bad is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted August 3, 2018 Share Posted August 3, 2018 Being extremely lazy doesn't sound as bad as not having a father altogether so it depends on what you define as a 'bad father'. To me if he was someone abusive and also neglected his responsibilities and duties as a parent then yeah, is very likely that family would be better without someone like that. Also not having your father isn't ideal but you can find another father figure in other relatives or persons around you, so there's definitely hope whether you have a terrible father or don't have one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungjins 676 Posted August 3, 2018 Share Posted August 3, 2018 I've experienced both and I'll tell you- an absent father is far better lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throb 317 Posted August 3, 2018 Share Posted August 3, 2018 Absent. What difference does it make anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCT_WINWIN 5 Posted August 5, 2018 Share Posted August 5, 2018 Absent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iJungwha 1,120 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Absent father. Way better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Absent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-seokseol 85 Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 I had both. First he was bad and then he was absent. I preferred absent because it hurt my mother emotionally less. uggh. same Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandwich 2,097 Posted August 11, 2018 Share Posted August 11, 2018 Absent father. Way better. Sent from iPhone X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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