Caridee 5,322 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 It’s been a couple of weeks since we broke up but I just can’t seem to move on. This has never happened with my previous relationships. I tend to move on fast but this time I just feel so stuck. Like I think about him all day long. When I’m driving or when I’m in class or when I’m eating like literally my head is just filled with him. Like the first thing I do in the mornings when I wake up is check Snapchat to see his stories and I keep viewing them all day over and over again. Even when I post snaps I check my story like every five minutes to see if he viewed it. I feel so pathetic cuz he seems to have moved on and I’m still stuck idk how to describe it. I know I need to move on cuz it’ll never work out between us but idk why all I ever do is think about him How do I get over him guys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
________________ 1,779 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 It’s been a couple of weeks since we broke up but I just can’t seem to move on. This has never happened with my previous relationships. I tend to move on fast but this time I just feel so stuck. Like I think about him all day long. When I’m driving or when I’m in class or when I’m eating like literally my head is just filled with him. Like the first thing I do in the mornings when I wake up is check Snapchat to see his stories and I keep viewing them all day over and over again. Even when I post snaps I check my story like every five minutes to see if he viewed it. I feel so pathetic cuz he seems to have moved on and I’m still stuck idk how to describe it. I know I need to move on cuz it’ll never work out between us but idk why all I ever do is think about him How do I get over him guys? Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvlinus 1 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 well first thing's first, stop viewing his snaps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M0VH 9,985 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 Healing takes time. But yeah, the first step is to stop looking at his snapchats or just his social media altogether. There's no point in holding onto the past when he's clearly moved on. Good luck~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose. 4,207 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 Remove him from all your sns. Secondly, find other things to do that will distract you from him, talk to other people, but don't use them to fill the gap youre missing from your ex. Lastly, enjoy your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arthur Morgan 3,556 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 well first thing's first, stop viewing his snaps yea and i bet he posts shit he normally doesnt or rarely does just to seem cooler cause she knows her ex is viewing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimz 3,113 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 Its only been a few weeks, break ups take time to get over. First thing to do is delete him off every social media platform you have, even if it is only temporary. Viewing his snaps or anything like that will just make it hard to move on. You can always reconnect later when feeling die down if you so wish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
☆*:｡Lemonade ｡:*☆ 3,433 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 Is it possible to talk it out with him? Because maybe you left it off not completely settled or you need closure Try to adblock him in sns that would be a good first step Try to find something to occupy your time too, something that wont remind you of him like going to the arcade or reading Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 maybe delete him off everything and focus on other things. that's how i got over my first love that i loved for years. only took me a few months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tamarind 1,746 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 put him on ignore on every social media platform and read lots of books Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted July 28, 2018 Author Share Posted July 28, 2018 Is it possible to talk it out with him? Because maybe you left it off not completely settled or you need closure Try to adblock him in sns that would be a good first step Try to find something to occupy your time too, something that wont remind you of him like going to the arcade or reading I don’t think talking is a good idea but yeah I do need closure idk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen1886 80 Posted August 2, 2018 Share Posted August 2, 2018 A few weeks isn't a long time. But I suppose it depends on the person. If you completely unplug (unfriend him on Snapchat, or take a break from social media altogether), you will probably have an easier time getting over him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted August 3, 2018 Author Share Posted August 3, 2018 I unfriended him on Snapchat. And deleted the app all together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 Get him out of your mind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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