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Are you okay being friendless?


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I mean, I have friends but you know the feeling of being just an option friend when the person they like


or prefer the most is busy and they don't have no other option just to hang with you?


 


what is your judgement on this topic?



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I don't have a lot of friends, but they're all close to me. It happens sometimes I feel like I'm an "option" because they have other friends I don't know, it makes me pretty upset. I'm also sad when I can't make friends easily or keep a friendship going. But at the same time I just don't mind having a restricted group of friends haha.

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No, i'm not okay with that. I don't have a lot of other relationships in my life, not pertaining to a significant other or with family, so my friends are very important to me. They make me feel like i have value and is desirable to this world. I'm eternally thankful for the fact that i met them. I do like being alone though, and maybe i don't spend as much time with them as other people would with their friends. That doesn't make me feel like less of a friend to them though. We always stick by each other.

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I'm not okay with that. I'm basically friendless now and it doesnt make much difference as my "friends" weren't people that even bothered to understand me. We had very different backgrounds and personality so they felt more like people to hangout with rather than friends. I'm better off alone, it's not perfect but it really is better

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I don’t need friends, it’s the other way round - friends need me.

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Was in similar situation, had people be friendly and open with me when in 1 on 1 talk, conversation. However in a group, they wouldn't acknowledge my existence or didn't even bother to answer questions I have. However, they would still ask me out with them every time and I was like 'why the fuck do you guys carry me with you if you only talk among yourselves'?

 

So I was thinking: 'I'm okay enough to talk with you when you feel upset and you have no one, but when there's others, you value my opinion less or you don't even give 2 cents about me?' then I've changed and gave 0 fucks for anyone. I just don't value people anymore.

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I'd choose to be friendless over having fake friends. I had a lot of fake friends in high school who didn't give a shit about me or my well-being, I've learned from those experiences and now have real friends who actually give a fuck about me and care about my opinions. Overall, I'd choose to have a smaller group of real friends than have a bigger group of people around me who won't be there for me when I need them the most.

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i have 1 close friend but we dont really talk all the time everyday. Im already kinda friendless but i dont really mind it. Of course it'd be nice to have a few really close ones but im doing alright. I talk to people and get along with them just fine that we can talk in school from time to times but i wouldn't concider them friends, more like acquintances? I guess i dont necessarily need friends to do well.

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